Marriage and Divorce..

[Paheli00]

Re: Marriage and Divorce..

@anamjamal

My nikah was in sept n i was getting married in dec..now due to some family problems my dad wants to divorce my mother after my marriage..she can also live separate..i also have a little sister but she dunt know abt this..i dunt know wat to do..im an engineer n i can work if i stay with my mother..but will my husband let me..cox he didnt approve of me doing job at the first time we talked abt it..but now its different..n my husband is in dubai..wat should i do..im so confused..

If there is NO WAY for your parents marriage to survive and you dad had already made up his mind…then you need to let your husband know about this asap.

Question: Before the nikaah…did you actually agree to give up your career and become a house wife?

You husband went through the nikaah and told you that he wants a house wife. Now if the situation has changed where you feel that you MUST work in order to support your mother…then your husband has a right to know this BEFORE the ruksati. If he finds this out afterwards, I guarantee you that it will cause resentment and anger on his part b/c you’re hiding a major detail from him.

Also, are you also moving to Dubai after the ruksati? If so, will your mother need to move with you too? Or will she live separately in Dubai (or the city you’re in now) and you just want to send her money? Either way…again…you need to decide what you want and discuss this with your husband asap.