Re: Marriage Age
How can you just pick an age??? There are so many factors, not the least being WHEN you find the right guy/girl. It's so sad when a girl turns 25, freaks out and says yes to the next rishta she gets, totally selling herself short!
Also, even if the right girl/guy is in the picture, I don't think one should get married until they have a career or have at least finished their education.
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^I think age is important. You must pick an age, otherwise, in life there are so many things to do - like career, world tour - bas apni manmani, that you will leave your age far behind when you finally stop and look back and you will be around 35 by then.
At 35 and up, girls are programmed to be in "risky" fertility issues =( So things just go downhill from there... then ALL of a sudden you may want to get married and have a dozen kids - BUT where is the time and partner? - you were STILL too busy anyways.
So what's the point in waiting?
Personally, I think Prince charming is "ALWAYS" there - but we take too long to "accept". Meaning, in life we find many guys who could be a good partner, but we always "reject" the potential by finding faults - either due to looks or money.
:( so we have to categorize age wise :(
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do you mean ideally or realistically?
Ideally- there is no age for marriage and as people say they should be "ready" which can mean any time from like 13 t0 45.
Realistically, the best time to get married is early to mid-twenties for both men and women, perhaps a bit later for men, only because of their roles to provide for their wife. It gives people enough time to get worldly experience, higher education and be able to survive in this world, but their personalities will still be pliable and compromising. people shouldn't wait too long because of women's biological clock and men's biological urge (how long will he control himself?). Actually NJ, women's peak fertility is around 27, and declines from there. after 35, the probability of Down's syndrome increases (which i think is what you are referring to) because cell division is less likely to occur with as much accuracy as before.
And I agree with NJ Masti- nobody's perfect, people reject way too quickly based on one or two "faults"
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okay how about this... Whenever you feel like getting married... you should coz thats the Right Time.
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Hey I remember i posted the reply here, where did it go? Anyway I will repeat :
How about this >>>> Whenever you feel like getting married, you should marry, coz thats the RIGHT time to do that.
Re: Marriage Age
16-25 for both
^I think age is important. You must pick an age, otherwise, in life there are so many things to do - like career, world tour - bas apni manmani, that you will leave your age far behind when you finally stop and look back and you will be around 35 by then.
At 35 and up, girls are programmed to be in "risky" fertility issues =( So things just go downhill from there... then ALL of a sudden you may want to get married and have a dozen kids - BUT where is the time and partner? - you were STILL too busy anyways.
So what's the point in waiting?
Personally, I think Prince charming is "ALWAYS" there - but we take too long to "accept". Meaning, in life we find many guys who could be a good partner, but we always "reject" the potential by finding faults - either due to looks or money.
:( so we have to categorize age wise :(
You cannot pick an age. You can't be like ok I am 23 now and the next proposal I get, I am going to get married. No one is talking about 'prince charming'. The right guy doesn't mean prince charming. The right guy means someone who can complement you and understand you really well. Compromises are inherent in any marriage. And I think only immature girls would reject a **good **guy based on looks or money. But if you haven't found the right guy, you shouldn't rush into marriage. I just don't think you should settle. Being single is better than being in an unhappy marriage.
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anytym aftaa bou 50
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