Women don't normally refuse sex with the hubby on a routine basis. We do not see it strictly for procreation. If a woman rarely wants it, we need to address whether we are skillfully conducting our matchmaking because clearly women are getting married to guys they are not attracted to. And that happens frequently with pakistanis unfortunately.
What about girls who refuse sex to their BF, Then BFs force them selves on the girls. You would think its a rape. At least that what girls want you to believe.
But then girls continue being friends with their BFs. Does that even qualify for a rape??