Re: Marital Problems
Saadi thanks for the reply. I am not writing all this for sympathy I just want to know how to sort this out. I am prepared to live with but is proving to be very difficult as my mental and phsical health really is suffering. I forget what I am saying especially at work.
He wants me to wear a hijab and change my clothes but like u said he will never be happy. I stayed in Pak for a few months, covered my head wore shalwar kameez, only went out with him when he wanted to. No demands for money or things but he still wasn't happy.
So even if i quit my job, cover my head, become a housewife he still will not be happy. I really don't want to be finanacially dependent on him becoz i have done that and he not the nicest person. All the time i stayed tere he didn't give me money, very rarely bought me phone card. Claim to be religious but only the parts that suit him. Such as most women will go to Hell. Most men who will go hell will be because of the women etc.