ill tell u honestly, i m quite sure shes not lying. i had a friend exctly like her in many ways... v insecure, rigid and all. and she didnt tell anyone abt her husband's beatings. she only broke the news to me when i got v close to her when she came to this country. i was appalled to say the least. cus this guy is the goody good one, respectful type. literally everyone likes him, hes funny, caring for everyone and v respectful to elders and all.... that girl had no choice but to keep quiet cus she knew no one wud believe her but in fact says shes in the wrong cus of her nature.
anyway he beat her like an ANIMAL!!!! kicks, punches, slaps, shaking, u name it. it was so depressin to hear this. i cried alotwhen i first heard this story, it was so shockin esp cus this girl is blunt and straight forward and all. to imagine her keepin so queit and not tellin anyone.. her baybasi made me feel so so bad for her. she was actually a very loud mouthed girl. hated her MIL to death... actually everyon in his family who he was close to. v insecure also... she used to compare her MIL with herself and one thin led to another and arguments and all and he wud beat her up like ****!!
ive personally also seen bruises on her arms so i know its not a lie... but its sooo hard to believe cus the guy is sooooooo nice and everythin except with her. btw let me tell u this violence thing happened even before marriage. it was light then. she said slaps and all but after marriage it went on and on more brutal than ever, that made me realize once an abuser always an abuser.
i tell her to leave this man and all.. but she cant, hers was love marriage and they also committed zina before marriage so basically they got married cus they didnt find themselves worthy of marryin someone virgin or pure. now they are payin the price. so sad but true.
pls pls pay attention to ur sister and help her out. maybe someone from her hubs friends can counsel him while u and ur family support ur sister. like her my friend also used to pretend in frnt of all that shes happy. she didnt want anyone to know they hd prbs, considerin they had to fight to get married. u can help ur sister before he kills her!!! trust me once u raise a hand, u can get sooo angry u can even kill the person or hurt them brutally!