don’t look any men directly in the eye, keep your eyes averted, serve tea and biskoots even if it’s not your house, you’re a girl, you’re expected to be the ‘waitress’. Also, sit with the aunties and listen to all their back biting and gossiping all the while encouraging them and telling them how hawt they are. If the uncles hit on you, pretend to be flattered and giggle like a happy school girl. See, easy peasy japaneasy!