This is kind of weird but my friend is getting married to a girl who is already pregnant. She had pre-mangani sex with one of her boyfriends and my friend is not the father. She is somewhat pregnant. My friend found out and he threaten to break the mangani but she is manipulating him with “taking my own life.” He says that if he tells his parents and if this girl ends up dying it’ll be on his hands what should he do? He also thinks that girl is doing some black magic on him thats why he’s reluctant to do anything. What do you guys think?
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kahin usi ka to bacha nahi hai? tere dost ka?
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Is t he guy wiling to raise the
The thing is, is she really sorry about what she has done…or just using this as means to an end.
Yeah rite… as long as she’s “sorry” that means that the guy should forgive her, be an understanding and “open-minded” guy and marry her.
On a serious note though I guess it also depends on what kind of a guy your friend is. If he’s had pre-marital sex with anyone then whats the big deal ? If however he’s clean then he shouldn’t go ahead with it. I don’t know how will he feel everytime he looks at the kid !!
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He wants her to do abortion and he has agreed i dont know what will he do after wards.
He wants her to do abortion and he has agreed i dont know what will he do after wards.
If your friend has the morals of this level that he is suggestion/fine-with murdering an unborn child, then I think the least he can do is stop talking about the character of the girl. God!! what kinda people are out there.
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If he's slept around himself he's in no position to judge her but if he can't cope with the fact the kid isn't his he should walk away, change his number, email address etc and never look back. Better than marry her and then a few yrs down the line realise he can't cope and then divorce.
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i am against abortion but in this case, i might consider it if i were the girl. i wouldn't want my ex boyfriends baby in my stomach. and before i say anything else..do the girls parents not know that she's pregnant?! she's threatening him that she'll commit suicide if he tells his parents, well, what happens when she has a big tummy? people might have an idea about what's going on then! and that can cause more trouble. people will start assuming your friend is the one who got her pregnant before they got married. and i don't think it's wrong to assume that they won't have the most successful marriage because no man wants his wife's ex boyfriend's baby.
you've got some weird friends
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Sorry missed the last 2 posts before mine, agree with snowy_winter's last post..
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How do you be "somewhat" pregnant?
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i think he means she is half pregnant 
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^ prob not pregnant long? (ie 'easy' to get rid of the way they look at)
This is kind of weird but my friend is getting married to a girl who is already pregnant. She had pre-mangani sex with one of her boyfriends and my friend is not the father. She is somewhat pregnant. My friend found out and he threaten to break the mangani but she is manipulating him with "taking my own life." He says that if he tells his parents and if this girl ends up dying it'll be on his hands what should he do? He also thinks that girl is doing some black magic on him thats why he's reluctant to do anything. What do you guys think?
- What is the mean of "somewhat" pregnant? Either you are or you are not.
- If she indeed is pregnant and that isn't his child, he should be very clear with her and either end his engagement or swallow it, and happily accept it.
- Tell him to be a man and stop blaming his indecisiveness on kaala jaadu.
- She will not commit suicide, how many haram activities is she planning to indulge in? Tell him to not succumb to this kind of blackmail and take proactive measures and involve her family.
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hmm.... is it really a problem..? I may consider it a problem if the scenario was set in 16th century n the situation was opposite that a guy is harassing the girl to marry him..... but wat is this ? i hope its not made up.....
well about the question....is this guy in love with her ? r they Muslims? If the guy is of good character then he should tell his mother n the elders will deal with the problem... she will not commit suicide... if she could she would do it when she did that haram act or when she came to know that she is pregnant...where is her ex ? she is not innocent... its not a mistake .... if the guy want to take care of her or the baby then he is a great man and Allah will reward him for that but if he doesnt want to marry her then he should not...it will ruin his life .... the gal herself made her life a hell she should deal with it .... and bring the ex in the scene,he should be the one blackmailed by her ....
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McPendo - the situation is just like your name: very much MC Pendu ish
lol
If your friend is already "submissive" to her saying "she will kill herself" - then your friend is GONE. He is weak at heart and will suffer many more years raising someone else's kid and the wify's demands.
McPendo - the situation is just like your name: very much MC Pendu ish
lol
If your friend is already "submissive" to her saying " she will kill herself - then you friend is GONE. He is weak at heart and will suffer many more years raising someone else's kid and the wify's demands.
Great Advice !!
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I met a girl once who thought that she is somewhat pregnant . .later on she found out it was too many beans.
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***First of your either pregnant or not…
This friend of yours must be delusional if he can’t make up his mind over such a simple matter.
He needs to break of the engagement as he is not only NOT ready to be father to another’s child he is in fact not ready for Marriage at all !
