Re: Mangni
the shaadi is the shaadi, you cant ever be as decked out as a bride until that day :)
and lots of girls go all out because they have big families they want to share the occasion with.
i see what you're saying, and i can understand wanting to celebrate big but like i saw picture of this wedding my friends went to and the girl looked beautiful mashallah , but trust me she looked like it was her wedding day not mangni...obviously its her day and more power to her
my point is though, if you look like you're at your main event on your mangni day what are you going to do on the actual shadi day?