Manana

Lifestyle Relationships
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In your relationship…jab larai hoti hai to kaun kisko manata hai?

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OK.

*Agar Larai Ho Gayee, then no change in 'relationship and routine ' should happen. (Keep a smiley face and be pleasant)
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But off course that does happen in some cases.

Mananay Ki Zaroorat Jab Hoti Hai jab Koi Baat Na Ho koi silsila Na ho .... and everything becomes stalled/stopped.

If that happens then,

1- there should not be an ego.

2- Just start doing the routine and discuss it later after some time. Never leave the incidence alone or be quiet about it.

3- Talk it over after sometime. Tell other person what you felt and be remorseful.

4- Never say things you would regret after, during larai.

When talk it over at a later time, attacking and accusing is very futile and leaves scar in the other person's heart.

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he doesnt know manaate kis tarha hain .... used to be me... even if he was in the wrong...i think he got used to that... par ab main nahin manaati unless m wrong...so if we have a fyte we end up not toking for a day or two...since he is in pakistan after that he sends me an sms and toks like nothing ever happened ...like he might say... "m going to work jaanu" or something like that and usually that pisses me off even more that ur not even addressing what happened n u didnt even acknowledge that maybe just maybe there is a possibility that u were wrong or what happened shudnt have happened... hmm i dunno how to answer that question PSquared sis...i think abh hum mein se koi kisi ko nahn manaata kyunki maine manaana chorr diya hai khaaskar jab unki ghalti ho aur jab woh ghalat hote hain toh ya toh unhe manaana aata nahin ya unhe acha nahin lagta yeh admit karna k he was wrong or what happened was wrong.

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He's usually at fault so he does the 'manana' ;-)

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Urgh. and here come all the retarded lovey dovey stories

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usually whoever blew up first....

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yesterday, me n my fiance got in a BIGGG fight. I'd say our biggest fight yet.. He was REALLY angry at me and I had to "mana" him lol... and things I had to do. But things turned our great and since yesterday I feel like he loves me more than he used to (never thought there was a possibility) but yea :D.

I'd say usually its me who has to say sorry first. He's a very moody guy :P

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my mum always told us... U JUST WASTED 2 DAYS OF YOUR LIFE!!!..

if ur in a relationship.. does it really matter who manana who??.. i mean ur both izzat is stuck together.. so get over it!!! u just wasted days of ur life.. if he has bothered to call back as if nothing has happened.. den chill move on.. bt come back later wen ur both in good mood.. sayin u hurt me then..

simple.. stop wasting life!!! its already short as it is!!!

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why retarded...??
love exists...!!!!

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lol i didnt waste anything... he came back as if nothing had happened and though i was still hurt i continued toking to him...he is the one who took two days to even tok to me...trust me it isnt a waste.,..it tells me a lot...it tells me k m the one jo baar baar call kar ke manaati hai...agar baari unki ho toh he aint gonna bend that easy...it tells me how valuable i am to him and how much i really mean to him...so no it was not a waste...

ur right izzat ek hi hai agar baat sirf unki aur meri hoti toh unke ghalat hone pe bhi main manaa leti jis tarha hamesha manaati aayi hun but when its his family who is poisoning his mind and he gets brainwashed by them and starts fyting with me then m not going to "manaa" him cuz that wud mean his family is right ...wahan mera ego aa jaata hai kyunki i know i have dont nothing to deserve this

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someone told me once ... do u wanna be right or do u wanna be happy ... so yeah thats wat it comes down to most of the time

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hmm nice thot...kaash larari k baad bhi ye soch aati ho...

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Some times manana either form husband side or from wife's side is mandatory but mostly laraii hoii after 4 , 5 hours khud hi munh seedhay karo and life moves on. Or wake up in the morning with smile and that's it. Usually its husband who do manana thing ladies ziada ter manwati hain ;)

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Usually its husband who do manana thing ladies ziada ter manwati hain
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ager husband mananay wala ho and ager wo bohat egocentric na ho jese k mostly men hotay hain..

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Awwww...love the responses so far!

Btw, there is a limit to the amount of manana you can do. If you havent done anything wrong...then make him realize it with your brains and not your temper. :)

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mana'ing used to be a sinch when i had to do it. i actually found it enjoyable.

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I do apologize if feels was wrong (it is possible your first reaction in spur of moment not the right one).

In case of her mistake, I like to compartmentalize the relationship, we fought because there is something I could not accept but our relationship should not become a hostage of small tiny issues.

In order to cool down the temperature, i changed the subject and start talking about other things, although she would have long face for while but things would become normal very fast.

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Him... almost always.

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poor "HIM"

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she manOOfy me 90% of the time …coz she starts the encounter 90% of the time :slight_smile:

Actually she is the victim of very common women-have-uncontrollable-yard-long-tongue syndrom but she realizes her mistakes (whenever its her mistake) quickly and makeup :blush: for it.

Let me admit, she is very good at heart … and 90% of the time she really does not mean what she says but by then damage is done …