thanks, DF for writing this.
please know that many people do not have a heart, decent fellow.
many people are tied up to their past and to their sense of disbelief that they can be happy. that they are loved and cared for and wanted and respected and cherished.
especially, coming from a woman, a man, any man, cannot handle a pure degree of regard, trust, and honesty with which he is showered.
he would eventually fal for his ego, his pressured mind’s chains, and those temptations that surround him.
in such a case, a warm welcoming house, promises of keeping someone content will not matter for a man.
when young adult woman and man, cannot stand by each other, then prayer or wish for a warm home, and a confidant companion is a dream that better be called, a nightmare at best.
hope and faith comes into the heart of a self respecting and true to their words, women and men, only when they care and care untiringly. time may not be on their side, but they will take up with the world, to meet and find the one they liked or loved.
determinate and positive minded people, noble and honest people do all they can to find a balanced way to make amend.
and there is no shame in it.
if the thoughts and intentions are pure, and the heart is one with the mind, this is possible.
but if the fears and doubts are over growing, then no matter how honest and how clear hearted one side is, the other is over whelmed with only emptiness and soon insensitivity makes a home in such hearts.
people who possess such hearts, may be blind to the honesty of the other side’s efforts altogether and you know where it leads - end of a relationship, with cowardness on the one side and hurt on the other.
it is okay to be ‘not alike’, but the love an care drives harmony.
those who miss it, may not even find the same care, even when they will find someone they think, is like them.
nothing is permanent in life.
that is why, building and sustaining long term close bonding relationship between a caring couple - a woman and a man in sacred marriage, is so essential and must be regarded as such - pure and free of any grudges and insecurities.
home sweet home and ‘togetherness’ cannot make sense to the
closed in hearts.
its a thing for the brave ones to come forward and uphold each other’s trust with caring and personal rsponsibility in protecting the relationship, if it is built on moral values fair and equal give and take as well as passion guided by lawful and blessed culmination into a marriage.
other wise, mental agility, inter personal zeal to please each other, for unselfish reasons and for the safety of the relationship is just as good as kicked dust.
g o n e!
