~ Man & Women ~

[decent_Felow]

i m nt here to start a battle between different sexes but i dont knw y we havnt realized yet that men and women r made different by nature and has assigned them different roles by which they contribute to society at large.

Lik A women’s priorities r might different from men but maybe we need to learn the importance of both and respect and accept each other’s point of view ..if a women fantasies about designer cloths then a man also dreams of fancy car ,if a women screams, a man beats too:bummer: they both lack patience:grumpy:…

In short the debate is nt abt moral inferiority Bcoz we all r equally bad and good but its all abt consequences…A single sinful women affects society more than many sinful men Bcoz a women occupies a role of greater respect and honor and the guarantee of the upbringing of many generations to come..

Women r society treasure and it is the responsibility of society to give them the due respect and protection.I emphasize that both men and women need it. Maybe a women seeks it more in her home as man gets his share of it from the outside world too.No women like men’s stupidity and his weakness however stil women ridicule men,they accept and adjust with their flaws just lik men should…

Marriage and a home sweeet home is a shelter for both men and women otherwise we will all be scattered just lik an isolated animal..if an old spinster withers away lik a lobe bird, an old bachelor is cold lik a crow in the rain :)…As far as responsibility is concerned females mature earlier than men and thus the male gender is more lik to hav this “infantibility”

Nature has made women fragile and weak physically but nt inferior in any respect.I agree women may feel insecure inferior and in a state of perpetual defense, so any relationship would be a disaster if either the psychological or the functional part is missing so in short or i guess the conclusion is that BOTH men and women are incomplete without each other and nature has made things in a way so that we find a balance in their togetherness…

For a greater human happiness women should appreciate the male standard of conduct but men should also respect and adapt to her views so that she can walk confidently and proudly beside her side…

**Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else…

SO

Never be afraid to say what u feel
*

[dutch_paki]

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I feel hungry.... brb!

[lal_mirch]

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Nature has made women fragile and weak physically but nt inferior in any respect.

FALSE: women are the stronger sexes both physically and emotinally.
:soldier:

[shweetdreamz]

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@lal_mirch

Nature has made women fragile and weak physically but nt inferior in any respect.

FALSE: women are the stronger sexes both physically and emotinally.
:soldier:

thankyou. i just upped your reputation points

[ConservativeGirl]

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@lal_mirch

I am not making fun of anything but somehow this looks like Cho to me… I am afraid that cafe kids can use it by mistake and thus will create voilence

[decent_Felow]

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@lal_mirch

Nature has made women fragile and weak physically but nt inferior in any respect.

FALSE: women are the stronger sexes both physically and emotinally.
:soldier:

prove it … be logical and to the point ..yup might be right ..par u hav to giv som goood reasons to justify ur point ..
physically women r nt as much strong as men …yup women hav other capabilities ..that men dont hav ..lik many bla bla

Mere Reputations points …

Sweet dreamzz app be

[lal_mirch]

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[quote=“decent_Felow, post:8, topic:160333”]

prove it … be logical and to the point ..yup might be right ..par u hav to giv som goood reasons to justify ur point ..
physically women r nt as much strong as men …yup women hav other capabilities ..that men dont hav ..lik many bla bla

Mere Reputations points …:
Sweet dreamzz app beQUOTE=

Opinions are always biased. I don’t know what unbiased opinions would be called. & if you can’t swallow opinions don’t ask for them.
Just giving my two cents I have not meant or tried to prove anyone wrong. Keep your own opinions I am not bothered by any of yours.

& (in my biased opinion) Just because men are better at violence, aggression, crimes,beatings, wars and killings does not mean they are physically stronger than woman. Childbirth and heart attacks are the most severe pains and every woman experiences childbirth. Ever read child birth stories on forums? Want me to post some? The psychological and physical trauma that they go through? I don’t think very many men will be able to cope with that.
Among my family & friends if men are sick they stay in bed all day while when a woman is sick she still does the house work, go to work, school etc etc.
Some facts that can’t be denied.
Women live longer by at least seven years! In the animal kingdom, the female also lives longer than the male.
• Women are more resistant to infectious agents and even cancer!
• Women work longer hours during their lifetime than men. Women have less leisure time. • The infant mortality rate is less for girls than boys.
• In industrialized countries the greater longevity of women is an undisputed fact.
• Women are known to take better care of themselves, both physically and mentally.
• At any age, men are three times more likely to die of accidents, violence and cardiovascular diseases.
• Malignant cancer related to smoking and alcoholism occur more frequently in men.
• Women resist extreme cold longer than men, because they have a deeper insulating layer of fat under their skin.
• Hemophilia, the hereditary disease which prevents blood from clotting, affects males primarily.
• Men are more subject to color blindness, stuttering and learning disabilities.
• Women have better manual dexterity enabling them to do work requiring finer movements.
• Women are wealthier than men. The U.S. Treasury Department informs us that women die richer by outliving spouses and inheriting everything. • Girls mature, on the average, three years earlier than boys.
And the most important one is that men need women more than women need men. Studies show that widows live longer and can take better care of themselves than widowers, who easily become overwhelmed by loneliness and depression. Also, both men & women consult women when they need true friendship or counseling.

& once again everyone keep your own opinions and share..

[born_wela]

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omg… … main itni zyada angreziii perhoon???

aaah welll… I think I’ll sit back and enjoy the show

[decent_Felow]

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& (in my biased opinion) Just because **men are better at violence, aggression, crimes,beatings, wars and killings does not mean they are physically stronger than woman.

If you can’t beat them, join them…

**

Childbirth and heart attacks are the most severe pains and every woman experiences childbirth. Ever read child birth stories on forums? Want me to post some?..

yup i agree with u …

PM me …i will read them

The psychological and physical trauma that they go through? I don’t think very many men will be able to cope with that. … yup u r right we dont knw anything abt pain
Among my family & friends if men are sick they stay in bed all day while when a woman is sick she still does the house work, go to work, school etc etc…
L Mirch mai ap ka dukh samaj raha hoon:blush: …har jagah Aisa he hota hai ..woo earnin be too kertai hai:bummer:
Some facts that can’t be denied. …
Women live longer by at least seven years! In the animal kingdom, the female also lives longer than the male… Yeh to ache baat hai …then
• Women are more resistant to infectious agents and even cancer!agree
• Women work longer hours during their lifetime than men. Women have less leisure time…then beter be sweet house wife and stay…home • The infant mortality rate is less for girls than boys…
• In industrialized countries the greater longevity of women is an undisputed fact.
• Women are known to take better care of themselves, both physically and mentally.
• At any age, men are three times more likely to die of accidents, violence and cardiovascular diseases.
• Malignant cancer related to smoking and alcoholism occur more frequently in men.
• Women resist extreme cold longer than men, because they have a deeper insulating layer of fat under their skin.
• Hemophilia, the hereditary disease which prevents blood from clotting, affects males primarily.
• Men are more subject to color blindness, stuttering and learning disabilities.
• Women have better manual dexterity enabling them to do work requiring finer movements.
• Women are wealthier than men. The U.S. Treasury Department informs us that women die richer by outliving spouses and inheriting everything. • Girls mature, on the average, three years earlier than boys.
And the most important one is that men need women more than women need men… Studies show that widows live longer and can take better care of themselves than widowers, who easily become overwhelmed by loneliness and depression. Also, both men & women consult women when they need true friendship or counseling…

Love is blind…

[SindSagar]

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@decent_Felow

i m nt here to start a battle between different sexes

Never be afraid to say what u feel

***It was a Man that gave birth to a Woman first, and look what it brought us… ***

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Man carries the complete code for perpetuation of the Human Race but without Woman this Race aint flying!

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***Each is like the wings of a bird, The Human race can not move without Either One… ***

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[decent_Felow]

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@SindSagar

***It was a Man that gave birth to a Woman first, and look what it brought us… ***

Man carries the complete code for perpetuation of the Human Race but without Woman this Race aint flying!

***Each is like the wings of a bird, The Human race can not move without Either One… ***

thats what the theme of the thread ..every1 need other…

but i gues she means somthing …lik that she didnt need any1 … we neeed them more than they need …

and wht else i feeel is somthing lik that …they r nt from us and we r nt from them

||…but Y …

[Dushwari]

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thanks, DF for writing this.

please know that many people do not have a heart, decent fellow.

many people are tied up to their past and to their sense of disbelief that they can be happy. that they are loved and cared for and wanted and respected and cherished.

especially, coming from a woman, a man, any man, cannot handle a pure degree of regard, trust, and honesty with which he is showered.

he would eventually fal for his ego, his pressured mind’s chains, and those temptations that surround him.

in such a case, a warm welcoming house, promises of keeping someone content will not matter for a man.

when young adult woman and man, cannot stand by each other, then prayer or wish for a warm home, and a confidant companion is a dream that better be called, a nightmare at best.

hope and faith comes into the heart of a self respecting and true to their words, women and men, only when they care and care untiringly. time may not be on their side, but they will take up with the world, to meet and find the one they liked or loved.

determinate and positive minded people, noble and honest people do all they can to find a balanced way to make amend.

and there is no shame in it.
if the thoughts and intentions are pure, and the heart is one with the mind, this is possible.

but if the fears and doubts are over growing, then no matter how honest and how clear hearted one side is, the other is over whelmed with only emptiness and soon insensitivity makes a home in such hearts.
people who possess such hearts, may be blind to the honesty of the other side’s efforts altogether and you know where it leads - end of a relationship, with cowardness on the one side and hurt on the other.

it is okay to be ‘not alike’, but the love an care drives harmony.
those who miss it, may not even find the same care, even when they will find someone they think, is like them.

nothing is permanent in life.

that is why, building and sustaining long term close bonding relationship between a caring couple - a woman and a man in sacred marriage, is so essential and must be regarded as such - pure and free of any grudges and insecurities.

home sweet home and ‘togetherness’ cannot make sense to the
closed in hearts.
its a thing for the brave ones to come forward and uphold each other’s trust with caring and personal rsponsibility in protecting the relationship, if it is built on moral values fair and equal give and take as well as passion guided by lawful and blessed culmination into a marriage.

other wise, mental agility, inter personal zeal to please each other, for unselfish reasons and for the safety of the relationship is just as good as kicked dust.
g o n e!

@decent_Felow

i m nt here to start a battle between different sexes but i dont knw y we havnt realized yet that men and women r made different by nature and has assigned them different roles by which they contribute to society at large.

Lik A women’s priorities r might different from men but maybe we need to learn the importance of both and respect and accept each other’s point of view ..if a women fantasies about designer cloths then a man also dreams of fancy car ,if a women screams, a man beats too:bummer: they both lack patience:grumpy:…

In short the debate is nt abt moral inferiority Bcoz we all r equally bad and good but its all abt consequences…A single sinful women affects society more than many sinful men Bcoz a women occupies a role of greater respect and honor and the guarantee of the upbringing of many generations to come..

Women r society treasure and it is the responsibility of society to give them the due respect and protection.I emphasize that both men and women need it. Maybe a women seeks it more in her home as man gets his share of it from the outside world too.No women like men’s stupidity and his weakness however stil women ridicule men,they accept and adjust with their flaws just lik men should…

Marriage and a home sweeet home is a shelter for both men and women otherwise we will all be scattered just lik an isolated animal..if an old spinster withers away lik a lobe bird, an old bachelor is cold lik a crow in the rain :)…As far as responsibility is concerned females mature earlier than men and thus the male gender is more lik to hav this “infantibility”

Nature has made women fragile and weak physically but nt inferior in any respect.I agree women may feel insecure inferior and in a state of perpetual defense, so any relationship would be a disaster if either the psychological or the functional part is missing so in short or i guess the conclusion is that BOTH men and women are incomplete without each other and nature has made things in a way so that we find a balance in their togetherness…

For a greater human happiness women should appreciate the male standard of conduct but men should also respect and adapt to her views so that she can walk confidently and proudly beside her side…

*Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else… *

*SO *

Never be afraid to say what u feel

[lal_mirch]

Re: ~ Man & Women ~

@decent_Felow

thats what the theme of the thread ..every1 need other…

but i gues she means somthing …lik that she didnt need any1 … we neeed them more than they need …

and wht else i feeel is somthing lik that …they r nt from us and we r nt from them

||…but Y …

I did not say anywhere that men or women do not need each other. Neither do I believe that one sex is inferior/superior than the other.
All I said was in the context of “physical strength”. Which is not limited to heavy lifting and knocking down your enemy.

[decent_Felow]

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@lal_mirch

I did not say anywhere that men or women do not need each other. Neither do I believe that one sex is inferior/superior than the other.
All I said was in the context of “physical strength”. Which is not limited to heavy lifting and knocking down your enemy.

dont take each and everything personal …yaar i m nt sayin to u that u hav mensioned ths ……its in general that wht i feeel ka som gals think lik that

but som gals r much more mature and accept everything , initially u really need som patience , afterwards u will ALL in All ..Ths is the reality

[decent_Felow]

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@Dushwari

thanks, DF for writing this.

please know that many people do not have a heart, decent fellow.

many people are tied up to their past and to their sense of disbelief that they can be happy. that they are loved and cared for and wanted and respected and cherished.

especially, coming from a woman, a man, any man, cannot handle a pure degree of regard, trust, and honesty with which he is showered.

he would eventually fal for his ego, his pressured mind’s chains, and those temptations that surround him.

in such a case, a warm welcoming house, promises of keeping someone content will not matter for a man.

when young adult woman and man, cannot stand by each other, then prayer or wish for a warm home, and a confidant companion is a dream that better be called, a nightmare at best.

hope and faith comes into the heart of a self respecting and true to their words, women and men, only when they care and care untiringly. time may not be on their side, but they will take up with the world, to meet and find the one they liked or loved.

determinate and positive minded people, noble and honest people do all they can to find a balanced way to make amend.

and there is no shame in it.
if the thoughts and intentions are pure, and the heart is one with the mind, this is possible.

but if the fears and doubts are over growing, then no matter how honest and how clear hearted one side is, the other is over whelmed with only emptiness and soon insensitivity makes a home in such hearts.
people who possess such hearts, may be blind to the honesty of the other side’s efforts altogether and you know where it leads - end of a relationship, with cowardness on the one side and hurt on the other.

it is okay to be ‘not alike’, but the love an care drives harmony.
those who miss it, may not even find the same care, even when they will find someone they think, is like them.

nothing is permanent in life.

that is why, building and sustaining long term close bonding relationship between a caring couple - a woman and a man in sacred marriage, is so essential and must be regarded as such - pure and free of any grudges and insecurities.

home sweet home and ‘togetherness’ cannot make sense to the
closed in hearts.
its a thing for the brave ones to come forward and uphold each other’s trust with caring and personal rsponsibility in protecting the relationship, if it is built on moral values fair and equal give and take as well as passion guided by lawful and blessed culmination into a marriage.

other wise, mental agility, inter personal zeal to please each other, for unselfish reasons and for the safety of the relationship is just as good as kicked dust.
g o n e!

Dushwari baji wonderful …

[lal_mirch]

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@decent_Felow

dont take each and everything personal …yaar i m nt sayin to u that u hav mensioned ths ……its in general that wht i feeel ka som gals think lik that

but som gals r much more mature and accept everything , initially u really need som patience , afterwards u will ALL in All ..Ths is the reality

some girls maybe the ones you are dealing with just have an attitude. I don’t think any girl would actually believe that. Girls know how badly men & women need each other in ever aspect of life.

[PyariCgudia]

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What is the "male standard of conduct"?

[decent_Felow]

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@lal_mirch

some girls maybe the ones you are dealing with just have an attitude. I don’t think any girl would actually believe that. Girls know how badly men & women need each other in ever aspect of life.

yup something like that

[twin_born]

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Df kahaan say copy paste kiyaa ...plz provide the link ....

[decent_Felow]

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the link is in my heart …DIl mai goo kush tha waha se paste ker diya