Re: Male Goldiggers
Please nobody rat me out :~(
Re: Male Goldiggers
Male Goldiggers 
Btw they say that ‘If you father is poor than its your fate … but if your father-in-law is poor than its your stupidity’
Re: Male Goldiggers
Do not talk about your money, ever. Dont pay for everything.
Make it seem like you dont have much to begin with and see if he sticks around after that.
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so who wanna run a credit check. 
They are as negative husbands as the ones who don't allow their wives to finish education and maybe have a job.
A precise distinction shall be made here. A gold digger is not a man who, though not rich, is willing to rough it out there to support his family. Someone who is financially stable, and yet always is on the look out for more, would be classified as one.
Someone who does not expect or accept (easily) financial help from others is from the most original breed of men.
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Oh dear me!
Sheyn - just when I was starting to believe that you are a rational thinker!
Alright lets just say this thread is the creation of an idle/bored mind. 
Now how is a male gold digger any different from a female gold digger? Ok, since I believe you are more concerned about the male ones (ideally), yes they do exist, but in my humble opinion they are in far less a proportion compared to their female counterparts. Reason could be that an overwhelming majority of made-up rich people comprises of men. A women need not worry about gold diggers unless she has to hire someone (a man of course) to manage her finances.
And, an old filthy rich woman will stick himself with a gold digger for very obvious reasons i.e. he is waaay too charming and studly and she cant help but to be with him. And as for how she can avoid that? smarten up, or be happy with the ‘price’ of being with a man you otherwise can not be with.
Tell them that you'd like to live a very simple life in a middle-class neighborhood. If you were rich or were to strike it rich, mention that you'd take all the extra money and buy an orphanage with it or something. Or spread the wealth around so that you will only be left with enough to live off. Say that you have already done some research into it incase it ever happens. Then see what he says. Of course this is all best to say if you have actually thought of these things so then you wouldnt really be lying. grin
Munni......the problem arises when ppl assume if you have a certain profession that you are automatically making big bucks........
so even if you did tell them the whole shindig about wanting to live a simole life they just play along till the deal is sealed so to speak.....
**i've seen several colleagues and family friends who are well-educated and in great jobs earning well and their spouses turned outto be low-lifes who just eat off them and not man enough to go out and be the breadwinner and provider ! **
And these guys feel no shame in doing it !
These girls are stuck in these marriages and can't get out cuz they have kids and obligations .......
Do not talk about your money, ever. Dont pay for everything.
Make it seem like you dont have much to begin with and see if he sticks around after that.
BonBon........like i said above ppl have preconcieved notions.....so even if u don't let on they still knoe !
They are as negative husbands as the ones who don't allow their wives to finish education and maybe have a job.
Actually my solution would have been exactly that....
........tell him from the outset i don't wanna work and he has to be the breadwinner...........i'd rather be a stay at home mom ...
do u knoe where these guys might be hiding ? I’d be interested ! 
Ur "oh dear me " reminds me of Ali from Mind your Language …he always used to go "oh dear me " & Oh blimey ! " 
as to the rest of ur post …CONCENTRATE …i said MALE GOLDIGGERS !
and every one thought I would be left behind in life because I did not want support from my family.
two more
PM, you’ve gained my respect. Finally.
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dude respect is my least concern. Cuz I alway earn it ,even when I am not trying
do u knoe where these guys might be hiding ? I'd be interested ! :D
Just keep your eyes open, you'll find him. For the record, there is one on this thread who did not want to accept help from his family.
Just keep your eyes open, you'll find him. For the record, there is one on this thread who did not want to accept help from his family.
tho ab baat kerwai na ........ dupatta sar pe -lay-ing *blush:*
tho ab baat kerwai na ........ dupatta sar pe -lay-ing *blush:*
PM, I have an offer you can't refuse.
You know dude, family made(brought me in the world).
Like in jungle a bear is born, Now what kind of bear go to papa bear asking for food??? He better hunt him self right??
Enough, thata papa bear brought little bear in the world/jungle. And protected when baby bear was little. 
Right??
lolzzzzzzzzzzz
Do I still have you respect ? ha ha
of course man. That’s how it should be. :k:
That is the fine balance we all need to achieve. Parents’ responsibility is to equip you with the right set of skills and moral foundation that could help you succeed. Success, on the other hand, does not need to be handed over (inheritance?), but earned.
I guess I have posted that before,
But i often use to say “I never took any support from family”
One day a chines man told me I was able to do things because I had good “genes”.
So now I papa bear. With out his genes I would have done much.