making you plead....?!

At times it becomes really annoying in few cases.

When they make a mistake " Ooops…I made a mistake. Well, we all are humans" ( the matter becomes forgive and forget)

When you make a similar mistake (unintentionally). They would show very bad attitude even after you accept your mistake and say sorry, but still their mood would remain OFF for quite sometime, as if they want you to plead them and beg them for forgiveness

It is not that I am dependent on such a person but I don’t feel good if anyone remains unhappy with me due to minor ununintentional mistakes.

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When they hit the car themselves " Ooops!"

When their driver hits the car, they have to remind him his mother and sister through use of abusive language.

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That is one weird post STP or I dont get it...seems to me that you are talking about significant other though..I may be wrong but I dont know !

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Brother STP,

i wish people realize that.
but you know, sometimes, their insensitivity is an ibraat.
intent is all that matters.
iontent to come, to stay and then to leave, at each phase the self serving intent layered within the smoke screen of liking and wanting to be in the company of a guide, a confidant or a claimed friend, all release a message that double standardsand doubtful thinking as well as actions, do not take very long for the doer of such actions to lose many precious things which could be his.
first one to go is trust, then respect, then care for such a person.
honest are those who still maintain a good personal status as a person who does not bear any hard feeling.
owning up to one's own mistakes is not easy for most people.
which is why it is necessary that when people develop a relationship among themselves, they let each other know that if a mistak happens, a confusion tales place, or a misunderstanding is created between them, then they must come face to face to alleviate it.

everything divided in a noble companionship points to the effect of comfort and security in knowing that even the negative aspect of someone's personality are endearing, since the two know that being responsible towards each other is the very basis of the continuity of their relationship.

alibis made like 'to err is human' are not something which strong and honest people make use of.
they bear full responsibility of their actions.
and they correct their mistakes, by going to the same person whom they mistreat, or straighten a piece of work wich they messed up on.
hope is that people will recognize their own flaws and work on checking their selfish nature.

Dushwari

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thats terrible...sounds a lot like a case of arrogance to me.

I have a friend, she makes jokes about everyone, but if someone makes a joke about her, 2 ghunte tak mood off rehta hai, it is so annoying.

ppl should treat others the way they'd like to e treated... kaash!

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It is not about significant other but about different people you come across in daily life, like in working place...etc.

@ Dushwari. JazakAllah khair sister. As usual you do understand the matter as I want to convey.

@ Pinks sister, exactly I was talking about such cases. May Allah bless us all towards the right path.