Making up with MIL

[Paheli00]

Re: Making up with MIL

@muspus

However, a number of situations occurred where my MIL did her utmost to upset me (not telling us about **a death in the extended family **so that when we attended a family gathering a few months later, the auntie whose mother had passed away, wouldn’t talk to me,

@muspus

I’d appreciate knowing the **basics though (births, deaths, marriages) **so I’m not made to feel like an idiot/arrogant/rude person around others.

So no one from your in-laws side shares birth/death/marriage news even with your husband? Your MIL/SILs (Is there a FIL in the picture?) or any other family member…does your husband not communicate with them regularly? And they never mention to him when someone has died or had a new baby or is getting married?