One of the scariest things about a broken heart is the feeling of living with the fear that u will never be able to love someone else like u loved that first person, that u will always make comparisons…i find the thought so daunting.
people is that the case? & im not talking about a stupid lil crush, im talking about a true deep love u feel for someone,for a long longgg time,say a couple of years. can u really get over your first love…which left u heart broken n move on n love someone with the same intensity or more & not make comparisons?
One of the scariest things about a broken heart is the feeling of living with** the fear that u will never be able to love someone else like u loved that first person,**
so true
can u really get over your first love…which left u heart broken n move on n love someone with the same intensity or more & not make comparisons?
u can never completely get over ur first love, though u can always try. You can always love another person with the same intensity till u get a little tear in ur eye and everythin comes back to u, all those freakin memories If you are loving another person with the same intensity then i dont think u tend to compare um with ur first lover.
anyway i would suggest all of u here to never fall in love, it will eat u up from inside.
p.s: ur past never stops following u, it always come back to u. So just dont ever ever ever… fall in love
i can ONLY answer on the 'comparisions' factor.. i HATE doing comparisions, i HATE getting compared... and i simply feel like NOT being around the person who's involved in either one of the comparisions factor..
HAVING said that, its human nature, and sadly, i compare too.. BUT! i also know that whats gone is gone..its just mind doesnt stop thinking about and UNKNOWINGLY , uncontrolibly (sp?) starts to compare, KNOWING there is no positive result out of it ..
awwwwww
i know what u mean mm,
1st love is 1st love, anytihng after will mayb never meet up to that initial intensity of emoion and felling, but u can always try
try not ot compare try not to say he/she used to do this or that, why dusnt my current love do it /why dus my current love do it
need to try to forget. there is no point comparing it wil just hurt u
its not easy,but time is a healer. It lives in your sub-concious so even if you don't focus on it ,you tend to feel it,and feel it bad...but with time you learn to get rid of those emotions and move on.
i used to *think *love was over rated,honestly..i used to roll my eyes n find girls crying over guys n the whole love thing so pathetic...my fav line was 'she/he really need to get a life' & i just did not understand y someone would cry for months on end n act as if there was nthing else to live for
but then...it hits u...hard. if u havent experienced it, u wont understand.
something I wrote about love a while back...may be its true
Love is a good thing, may be the best of things...its sense and smell intoxicates you,intensifies you..you wanna hold on to it and never let go..but like all good things in life it has to one day and then there is nothing left.
One of the scariest things about a broken heart is the feeling of living with the fear that u will never be able to love someone else like u loved that first person, that u will always make comparisons...i find the thought so daunting.
Loved once and it just didnt work out. I STILL care about that person even though I know nothing can't be done. Yes, there are good guys out there but mind and heart just doesn't agree on fallin for anyone else again. Not with the fear but with the thought that you won't be able to find someone like him.
I don't make comparison with anyone because I know everyone is different but its just that person is not appealing to me much as the one I loved.
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can u really get over your first love...which left u heart broken n move on n love someone with the same intensity or more & not make comparisons?
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It is not easy to get over it no matter how hard you try. :)
Which is why you shouldn't love until you're married to someone and it's a done deal. Before that, run the hell away from anyone you start falling for.
If you’re disciplined enough, the moment you realise you’re starting to fall for them you’re stop talking to them, looking at them, or going anywhere near them.
so true
If you are loving another person with the same intensity then i dont think u tend to compare um with ur first lover.
