Making A Man....

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Re: Making A Man…

@Bobby1

So how did you become the man you are. I am finding turning boys into men is such hard work, requires amazing efforts by parents, friends, and society. Harris is my 14 yr old and we sent him to a training camp in Florida and it seems that 3 weeks made such a big difference in his level of maturity, he seems so grown up now. He is running a half marathon on Sunday for cancer. These things take efforts from so many people, countless volunteers make this possible, Jasons mom helped to pick up the packages from downtown and many volunteers and sponsors are helping with organizing the race.

For me it’s my mom’s death and ups & downs in life!!!

On the other hand I am not married but I can sense how tough it is to brought up your children and to educate them morally…

@Cheegum

I do not have children of my own so I should not be one to speak. In my experience of eight nephews and nieces and nannying countless children though I have learned that children in their formative years learn by seeing rather than listening. This makes sense as from the moment they pop out children take many years to properly understand adult speak. Their eyes however start seeing and processing things from the third week on.

The best way then to make your child a man is to be a man yourself. And make sure he sees you being a man everyday of the first eighteen years of his life. Glad you’re taking just as much part in the events as you’re making him.

well said… ALLAH aapko sahab-e-aulaad kare (Aameen)

@batameez

Usually ready made

Gene’s, fitrat , evironmental factor and looking at the extended family

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