not at all. i was just asking you how you would feel if someone went around stating those things about your character based on your wedding video, just like you have no problems labelling someone else “shameless” and “idiotic” based on their wedding video, of all things, and without really knowing them.
obviously your response above clarifies that this would offend you, so why do it to someone else?
which brings me back to how we should all aim to keep the tone in here friendly - it is possible to critique someone’s dancing style objectively (i.e. they didn’t take any lessons or the choreography was crap) without calling them a skank.