Make up mysteries - help!!

I think that was great advice and every now and then my cousin will ask for things and i'm like thinking i myself don't have that why would i get one for you? I think a lot of people back home think those of us abroad are a lot wealthier than we are and it doesn't help when they always send money, gifts with people that go back home. I think our parents gave the wrong impression in that matters. I remember once my uncle asked me to get jeans for his nephew, not even someone in my own family and my dad made me go around town looking for some stupid levi pants. i was highly annoyed but glad it wasn't anything expensive. I think i get annoyed because i was raised to never really make demands or wish lists and such like that. if ppl want to get me a gift it's appreciated but im not going to tell them i want an outfit from karma or something.