Maids

Lifestyle Relationships
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But what if the maid is into it with her own free will , for money and for many other fringe benefits , then how is it man’s fault ?
It is true in many cases in ME countries as I have heard.

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It's true everywhere in Connecticut to Middle East to Pakistan. If a man or woman are looking for some action - they can find one anywhere in the planet.

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If husbands got maids to cheat for, wives have chauffeurs and other male employees so wives always have ways to balance the cheating.

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Meaning, I agree with you--there's nothing wrong or immoral about keeping a maid....people are making it as if you own a person as a slave!

ab baat hai about having affairs and such, well thats just wrong....but thats a separate issue methinks.

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Watch the movie "Spanglish".

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Sara, you deserve a hot young male cook :D

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i think what ppl meant to say was... if the woman knows her man attracts women liek bee to honey or is sadaa bahar horney 24/7, then why bring another woman into the house? and if she did... watch her like a hawk.

im not saying thats how its meant to be and men should keep their flies zipped but then its not always like that... its only for SUCH men that cant, their wives shouldnt hire maids. cuz their men cant be trusted

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uff,

I don't understand how women can just dump their babies in a garbage bin or a plane's toilet seat :(. Heatbreaking.

As for the maid/husband thing, well, it's very unfortunate but here's a fact: Men who could/would sleep with their maids would sleep with any other women as well so basically it's not JUST the maids who are dangerous. A woman is a man's weakness.

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easy solution..... hire a maid during daytime only during the working days, when your husband isn't home :D

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bring on the plumber or the pizza delivery boy

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Yup...........plus I doubt anyone should need a maid longer than that............

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^ yup and most woman have common sense to do that and they want to see how good the cleaning service really is.

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be careful who you are hiring as maid. Be sure about their orientation :)

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If I have a maid...she will be ugly...:(

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beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.. make sure you hire someone that is ugly to your husband :D

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:khumar:

Orphy, chup oye.

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I have not read all the replies but I think that in middle east. most of the maids are Filipinos. Ugly or not, they are gori in complexion and some of our desi men wont even leave a gori gadhi, let a lone a gori woman.

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Nah that wont' work.

Everybody Loves Raymond had an episode about that....Marie found out frank had the hots for their maid....a fat, middle aged cranky old lady...his reasoning for liking her? She wasn't his wife. :D

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OR just have the hot and flirty pool boy or the yard guy come in at the same time as the maid. Your husband will be too busy making sure they are getting the right kinda work done lol

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^ can't kick the ATM machine out, can you?......love this...

but seriously when i came to pakistan 20 odd years ago...man of the house and maids having fun was happening way back then..my naive english mind was quite shocked...i stopped moving in that circle of kitty party type of friends
I have part time servants who sometimes dont like the fact that i stand around and help make beds and watch my servants so they work quicker and better and leave on time..i pay well and expect the job to be done...
and yes eastern countries are dusty so we do need the help..and people drop in unannounced so you cant plan things...
If you can afford it get help in any country I say......:)