Urm excuse me I never bashed SAHMs and my opening post said that there is nothing wrong in should having help but there should be a limit where u are not entirely dependent. Don’t people in pakistan go crazy if their masi doesn’t come for one day. Also I respect SAHM, my mum is one too and I love that she was there all the time for me and that doesn’t imply working mums aren’t great either as they are doing a lot of mehnat for their kids future. I never intended to bash either one, only stating an opinion after I had seen some scenarios and asked for others point of view.
Please see the highlighted part below from my first opening post: