Hmmna
October 19, 2012, 6:12pm
34
Re: Maids/Nanny
To all the above posts, I never accused anyone having a maid/nanny as wrong or said that one shouldn’t have one. I meant that some people take it to the next level and was looking for general discussion.
As other posters have pointed out that people hire 10 or 12 year olds to do this, which IMHO is wrong and cruel. I don’t think it is wrong to have a maid/nanny whether you are SAHM or a Working mum. But all I said was that I have seen people have both maids for housework and a separate one for the kids and yet still don’t give enough attention on kids or expect everything to be done by the maids. Now if you do your own housework and have a maid for your children or vice versa, I don’t think that is wrong either. Someone once told me a maid chewed up the food for a baby and fed it to him, now that is plain wrong.
@GTG , in your situation having a maid to look after your baby is not wrong, and I would never say that, as you deserve rest in some form, either by her doing the housework or looking after your baby or both lol.
well if u wanted a general discussion you centainly got one. all the mums gave you their opinions. i think u wanted everyone to agree with you and join in on the SAHM bashing