Re: Mahr Question
WOW. Im so sorry you are going through this...it amazes me so much when families bicker and fight over mehr. Its not their right to. Plus, once they agreed to it...why backing out now when everything has been said and done?
I really think this is a trick. Your hall is paid for, wedding preps have been taken care of, all the money has been spent, everything is set to go. If they raise the issue now...do you have any choice but to say "YES, PAY ME WHATEVER YOU WANT"? You dont, do you? You have to go through with it no matter what otherwise all that money goes to waste.
I think you should surprise them. Tell them, my family and I have discussed and we find it unacceptable. Thanks but no thanks. I dont think they're going anywhere...they're bluffing and want you to say something you will regre later. Its so unfair to you.
If they also walk away, then I guess it wasnt meant to be. You have to take a stand when you're being bullied like this otherwise it will always be this way.