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Re: Mahr Question
does he love u that much tht hes prepared to walk away for the sake of the amount of mahr:rolleyes:
think it over girl, srry i cnt give any religious perspective on it
Re: Mahr Question
If you are askinbg the religious opinion then according what i kow, you can demand whatever mehr you like, and marriage will not happen unless the husband agrees to pay it and it will be stated in Nikkah document.
If you want to know social aspects or your options, it is best suited in life1, so i will make a copy of it there.
This is a pure blackmail that your fiance is doing and you should not give in to it, remember that if wedding is called off, your fiance's family will suffer also and they will have tough time finding another match once the word gets out what they did.
During the actual nikah, I remember the question asked to me was something along the lines of if I accept the girl in nikah and agree to a certain amount of mehr.
Anyhow, regardless of the amount that was set, it seems pretty shady to me that they're trying to back out now (from the mehr agreement). Have you made istikhara for this wedding? Unless you've made an istikhara and its result was that the wedding is good for you, then I would consider backing out.
To get a proper answer, I wouldn't recommend this site. I would suggest you put the whole situation in front of your father and if needed, have him consult an aalim about it.
Re: Mahr Question
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-relationships/324817-mahr-question.html