before marriage, they feel like it as a trick or lets say emm .. a strategy to share things since they want the next person to feel their importance (the god’s importance) .. .. so that they may not loose 'em
the moment they get married .. .. they take 'em as for granted .. no matter if i share or not .. she/he will be mine .. .. so lets not share .. .. .. lets be myself .. let me have my PERSONAL SPACE (my foot personal space .. if u love someone then love him/her till you die .. .. .. )
Don’t even start on the topic .. “love after marriage” .. 
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