experience and crying stuff that i have seen in my friends. the statements those guys used to make and the things girls use to miss .. .. aah ..
Seen people who were so obsessed by their loved one and the moment the “achieve” a particular level in their relationship .. their obsession got finished. After that, there relation remain merely of words. I love you .. you love me .. and no one even used to feel that. They had everything in between 'em except LOVE!
Seen girls who are more comfortable in talking to others rather than talking with their loved one except for “usual conversation”.
If i am not wrong, then loved one is someone with who you are comfortable to talk and discuss every stuff .. .. but .. I have seen opposite of that. they talk only about “love” and rest is being shared with their other so called “best friends” . .
You will find 100 of examples right here on this forum, people are getting crazy about those who does not even respect 'em to the level they deserve but they are crying for 'em 'caz they had “committed” to each other. I don’t believe that a relationship can exist if there is no “respect” and no “trust” and i have even seen on tihs forum, every sort of discussion .. .. which clearly says that the next person doesn’t even respect 'em .. but they are crazy about 'em .. (i m sorry - there is no personal attacks).
There is a little god who lives in every one .. who wants to be get praised, who wants to seek attention, who wants everyone to listen to him .. .. and every love story starts by poking to this particular god .. .. ..
- Jaan, you look so beautiful
- Hey, you are the only one i listen to .. I don’t even listen to anyone else
- Yeah, ye tm ho jo kahti ho wo maan leta houn .. warna kabi na maano
- Girl speaking: bla bla bla bla .. .. .. .. boy: wah wah .. tm boltay hoye kitni achi lgti ho .. ..
and these particular things get problematic the moment that obsession level has been achieved .. no more praises for that god .. no more attention to that god .. only so called commitment is left which is imposed by “SOCIETY” named as “Marriage”.
Do you guys really believe there is anything called “Love” .. ???
P.S:
any person who is more independent in his/her feelings .. i.e. who can live without sharing stuff .. who can bear those little hitches of life without feeling burden of those .. is harder to fall for in “so called love” .. reason .. .. the very first step .. “emotional dependency” he does not even fit for that step .. since he is INDEPENDENT!