when someone makes you feel like this, how do you regroup your self?
it could be any relation that you have when you are born, or one that you make, or you think, you were making with someone yourself, but that other person, does not care for it?
share you thoughts on this, only if you would like to.
thanks and best,
Dushwari
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just curious, are you married?
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No Orpheus.
I was proposed by someone, though.
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I would say that to go through what you really feel about yourself...U know that inner voice that may be over shadowed by the new negative feeling.One thing is to stop the person from making you feel this way...by letting them know that this is wrong.
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i say stuff 'em! theyr’e not worthy if they attempt to make anyone feel that way!
personally, if my parents are happy with me, i couldn’t care less what the world thought of me!
there’s a dua i really like, I’d like to share it with you, inshallah you will appreciate its meaning and message as well 
O Allah! Grant me Your love, and the love of a person whom my loving him will benefit me draw closer to You. O Allah! Whatever You have granted me from what I love, make it a means of strength for me to use in the way You love. O Allah! Whatever love (of things) You have removed from me then Grant in its place the love (of things) that You love.
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Pinks, may Allah swt bless you with all the loving care of your loved ones - understanding and comforted parents, content, sucessful, supportive and cared-for siblings, dedicated equal partner spouse, guiding teachers and trustworthy friends. amen.
best,
Dushwari
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Pinks, may Allah swt bless you with all the loving care of your loved ones - understanding and comforted parents, content, sucessful, supportive and cared-for siblings, dedicated equal partner spouse, guiding teachers and trustworthy friends. amen. best, Dushwari
ohhh. JAK for all those duas :) and I pray the same for you (i also pray that my english would one day get as deep as yours :) )
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that is some very confusing dua , dushwaari... i got part of it but the other half just went over my head