Shona , nikkahed yaar … inshallah getting ruksatified in nov… 
and there are a few other twists so I call him fiance to escape telling the entire story .. 
At work once , I was sharing an incident and said "my husband … " .. a few days later I told them i am getting married and they asked me if women are allowed to have two husbands in your religion
its just too confusing !