I havent been going to my best friend’s house much these day of which she has been complaining about. I dont know how to tell her but i feel uncomfy in her house sometimes. I love all of her family members but still there are few things that make me gross out there. She has a 10 yr old bro whom all of her sisters are always kissing even with out any reason. If there bro is sitting with us playing his gameboy, they would call on him and ask him to give them a kiss. Hes 10 forGod sake!!!. I have told um to let him grow up, quit kissing him all the time, at times hes even grossed out and would make faces but he wont say a word about it. Anyway and he has some etiquette probs too. He would just burp in public out loud, well alrite i dont have a prob with that (coz when he does it infront of me, i would compete with him) but he also farts with sound effects. He wouldn’t say excuse me or anything and wouldn’t even leave the room to do it. He just doesn’t even care that he does it and i m always grossed out about it + they always smell :yuck: u know wht the crazy thing is, my friend wont even say a thing. She would just laugh and when i say sumthing to him then she just tells her bro while laughing that how unappropriate it was and that he should leave the room if he has to fart. Well i went to her place yesterday after a long time and unfortunately he hasn’t changed a bit. We were all eating in the kitchen when he came across and opened the refrigerator and then just started to look for something to eat and u wont believe wht happened. As i was about to drink my soda i heard an abrupt noise and i just couldn’t believe at what he did. My water wasn’t sliding down my throat anymore. Everyone around me started to laugh and i was just disgusted and eyeballing him for farting in the fridge. I didnt even know what to say. I dont know what the hell is going wrong with them. They arent helping him learn any etiquette. I have tried my best to help them out but as i m not there all the time, he wont take any influence from me. I am just sick of going to her house and smelling something i wouldnt wana ever smell.
Btw her parents are always working. They come home around 8:00 p.m everyday.
Today she called me up and asked me to comeover again and i talked to her about the whole situation and how i am even worried about her bro’s habbits and guess what she hung up on me saying how paranoid was i being?
You should just ask your friend over and try not to go over to her place. You don't have to expose yourself to a situation you don't agree with. It's your choice.
ashtray so what ur trying to say is burping/fating i.e. disgusting=Men
saima: I can try that but shes not even talking to me anymore + she has to babysit her bro most of the time which is y i have to go over her house + shes my bf and i wanted to help her out.
Burping, farting, nose and ear-picking and testicle scratching in public are some of the most basic steps necessary for the grooming of an alpha male. An alpha male is the leader of the herd. With marriages becoming extinct, soon only a few alpha males will be mating with 90% of the women out there. Seems like they are grooming him to be one, too. So yes, you are being paranoid.
Nope, not true. You can do whatever you like especially if your in your house, how would you like it if someone came into your house and said you should do this, this, and this because they thought you dont act proper.
afridi do u act the same way when someone comes over ur house. I think he needs to learn how to act infront of others and plzz whether its his house or not he still farted in the refrigerator, dont u think he crossed the line there?
ashtray: first u accepted the fact that wht he did was being a man and then u blame it on us.
meh…that’s why!..they still think he’s a baby…and treat him like that..and if things don’t change…he’s gonan be one spoiled kid…my baby brother is 4 years old…and people in the house treat him like he’s 1…specially the rentz…after readin this..m gonna make sure alot changes around the house:snooty:
Why are guys in this thread arguing for the sake of arguing? This is stupid, and your friends behavior just encourages it. He's a young brat with no parents around to discipline, and ur friend isn't doing the greatest job in their absence. I have a younger sib around this boy's age, and they would never do such a thing, nor should it be encouraged even if it were to happen once or twice.
And it smells