lying to make someone love you?

what do u do with guys who lie to make girls fall in love with them, and then lie to end the relationship? But throughout all of this, they don’t stop lying, and they never make it seem like they’re the bad guy.

Sadly, this has become so common, and it could be vice versa too, I’ve just heard and seen more cases of men deceiving women though.

What do you do with such people? Do you ignore them? do you cuss them out and let them have it? do you talk to them about it?

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Disappear on him

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Cuss them out and let them have it (that is jst my opinion)...I knew some1 like that....grrrrrrr....these kind of ppl are jst gutless!

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when you become certain that they are fooling your around !!

step up - tell them that you have known the truth and now he should stop ...

requires a hell lot of control on ur self emotion's later then...( which a lot of girls dont have )

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girls always like to be lied to....if you tell them the truth.....they just don't like it..

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***How do you lie to make a person fall in love with you ! :konfused:
Wait how do you MAKE a person fall in love with you ? :konfused:

Someone fill me in on the secret… …I need some loving :smiley:


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^ You read my ‘promised blog entry’ wohi :wink:

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:eek:


Ok I think I don’t want no loving no more !!! :bummer:***

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Totally . . . I always tell them that I am the most awesome guy out there . :snooty:

I hate the ones who don’t trust me :naraz:

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You do the same thing as you do with the girls who lie to make guys fall in love with them.

Lets start… :hmmm:

biggest lie is “make up”. Girls make up hides and lie about what she really looks like in real. That puts 99% girls into lier category, doesn’t it?

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^makeup can only enhance a person's look, for the most part... and when it is too much, anyone can tell. i don't see how it is a lie. categorizing it as such is a weak argument. I dont think a woman gets up and thinks "oh im gonna put on makeup today and look like a different so I can trap guys" ?

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I think women put on a makeup so they can "look good" which leads to conclusion that they think they dont look good in the first place....

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^not true...but lets assume you have a valid argument...how does that constitute as a lie again?

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lie = hide something, present something in a shape its actually not in.

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People lie to encapsulate their shortcomings and fallacies to someone they want to be with, because that's when the guards are high. When they realize the relationship builds to a level where trust can be bestowed they either spill out the beans or choose to be camouflaged. It's the latter that lives a life of deception and lies to end the relation though. And yes, no one wants to come out villainous, hence they refuse to emerge as the bad guys. Think of it, very few people admit to being the cause of the demise of a relationship.

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lie:

1.
a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood.
2. something intended or serving to convey a false impression; imposture
3. an inaccurate or false statement.

Now, I am sure every morning when you dress up your intentions aren't any of the above. =)

and don't pick on 2. ; makeup is not imposture.

source: dictionary.com, though we shouldn't need one...common sense should tell us better.

ps: this isn't about me advocating the use of makeup, it's about how untrue your statement was. sure, you can point out many other ways women and men lie in relationships.

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^

I didnt know that dressing in the morning can change your complexion, length of your eyebrows and list goes on :)

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"dressing up" means different things to different people...from teens, to older women, men...boys. oh and the intent of most people is not to deceive.