People who are truly effed up in the head would go looking for someone else when they are already happy in one relationship. It doesnt matter that her marriage was arranged or love... kids and love and happiness did come out of the relationship no matter how these two got together in the first place. I love it how people try to justify their ghattiya behavior sometimes by playing the "oh my marriage was arranged, Im not completely happy... or I didnt get a chance to live my life my marriage was arranged." Bullshieet! You said yes, you married him, now dela with it. And if you're not happy, then get a divorce first and then go look for another man or woman or whatever floats your boat. Gawd, what in the world are desis coming to????
do we know the same person?
I know someone who is in that exact situation...and she says she cannot divorce, she was too young/forced etc.... and at first i felt sorry for her..but not any more...