Re: Loving your spouse in an arranged marriage…(Brick Lane)
they aren’t willing to accept the fact that they are gona fal in love ..
its more or less a bollywood world that has been created in the mind of lots of people. Girls start dreaming about their prince charming no sooner they get married. start considering their majazi khuda bla bla bla .. and by the end of 4-5 years, they eventually fall in love with them. They are raised with the mentality that you will get married, you will go the other house, where everyeone would love you bla bla bla bla bla bla bla .. what do you expect?
same goes to boys as well ..
a kid and a toy has nothing in common .. but let the kid play with it and keep that toy in his room for 4-5 years .. by then end of time he would be so comfortable with its existence that he wouldn’t be able to imagine his world without it. Ofcourse that toy has to be little responsive …