Loving someone?

Why do women lead men on? Why? Why not just say, look youre ugly and i want shahrukh khan, end of story, why lead men on? Women please discuss.

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SRK isn’t all that imo

Who led who on by the way?

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A woman of most peculiar nature led a rather daft bloke in search of true love. But twas not meant to be as they both were searching for themselves. Lmaoo na i’m joking. Actually I just want to know why women lead men? Why do they hold on to poor guys as a backup plan incase nothing works out with the rich ones?

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I dont think it’s a ‘back up plan’ but when the girls realise that the rich guy is actually concerned with managing money rather than care about their wives/family life, they start to look out for someone with no or less money so that her guy could pay attention to their homes/family instead of their bank accounts, business, etc. etc. etc… (To the rich guys who hold money closer to their hearts than their wives, that list is endless)

“Love dont cost a thang”

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Sady you sound like a nice understanding dude. I just want to know why women do this? Is the appeal of riches is so much that they completely avoid love? Do women even love? Or do they only love when they have been completely screwed over? Does a woman love in her most prime? In her most beautiful and elegant of time? Or does she walk all over the hearts?

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Awwww melaa bachchaa dont cry… :teary3::crying:

She walks all over the hearts :hehe::mocking:

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This is a serious thread btw.

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Oh okay… everyone’s here to share your pain, please dont be sad :teary1:

:biggthumb:

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Men lead women on too. All those questions can be applied to men as well.

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Never found Shahrukh Khan attractive from ANY angle. Maybe it’s just me. As Taylor Swift says “cause you know I love the players, and you love the game.”

Ok, I’d stop. I don’t really listen to Taylor Swift.

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:hehe:

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In all seriousness, it depends on what they are looking for. If they are looking to settle down, they will quickly dump you and move on instead of leading you on. If they are not sure or are not serious about it, they will play you for as long as you play along.

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Same girl as last time Paa Jee? The one who was ignoring you?

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Shahrukh khan? :smack:
Salman Khan kaha hota tu bhi tha.

Srk :wub:

Blame bollywood for setting the standards so high.

Jk. Females be cray sometimes (read: often).
There, there. You’re probably not ugly.

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girls want SRK? LOL

money isn’t everything. yes, you should have enough to get by but it’s sad if your whole existence/purpose is for money.
Maybe your just meeting the wrong type of girls for yourself. Plenty girls lives don’t revolve around money.

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Good question Paa Jee :slight_smile:

If you’ll compare men and women both at once you’ll find out that women feel more insecure when it comes to deciding about a life partner. Now the question is why is that?

There are many reasons for that:

1- Women are more emotional as compared to men yet more emotionally confused as well.

2- Women like to indulge themselves with someone who has/had their attention and see where that goes even though they already know someone else or talking to someone else at that given time.

3- Every woman has a trigger point that most of them don’t realize until one of the guys hit that. That trigger point can be money, bad past relationship, word of mouth of other women about men in general, amount of romance/love/fun or closeness she feels talking to each of the guys in her options individually and other similar kind of things.

4- Women who are mature or had a bad past relationship one side of them always hate men in general even though the guy they are talking to at the moment is totally opposite to their ex. They try to make a strong standing with this new guy. They like to argue more with him because they start to think same about all the men at this point and feel more insecure about everything.

5- Women who consider themselves mature in this matter are mostly the women who were being played by someone in the past. These woman also play a big role in their friend’s decision making.

6- Women don’t fall in love most of the time, it’s the guy who makes them fall in love with him.

7- Even though some girls have mentioned Sharukh Khan and Salman Khan here as their ideal men many out of them would have a lot of questions if any one of those men would come to them and ask them to marry right now. This shows one very interesting emotional insecurity about women that even though they’ve the perfect man besides them they need other women’s opinion/stamp of approval to make it perfect.

8- Women like to discuss the guy they’re seeing/talking to with their girlfriends and the guy a woman chooses at the end of the day most of the time is the end product of 2-6 woman’s combined decision. Which shows they lack in decision making as compared to men in this regard.

9- Women continuously test the guy and interrupt him whenever they can to see the response in a particular situation. Because when a woman likes someone she’s almost gone emotionally but she tries to be mature and put forward some annoying questions to put the guy into extreme.

10- When a woman likes a guy the biggest insecurity she feels about the relationship can vary but most of the time it’s the insecurity of the guy leaving her.

11- When you find a woman talking less and listening to you more means she’s taking deep interest in you and is in the phase where she can actually fall in love with you. But that doesn’t mean she’ll because at the same time if the guy isn’t mature enough to see that would start complaining and that would eventually make the woman take a step back.

12- Women like to listen to nice, decent, positive and opinionated stuff only when they’ve started to feel something about the guy otherwise they’ll put you in a totally different handbag they carry and that handbag usually contains their options and type of the guys they don’t mind but don’t really find interesting. Which means women like to feel alive before they move to the serious phase of relationship with a guy.

13- Most of the women who had a bad past relationship don’t like to go into romantic stuff easily and those type of women are most difficult to convince because once a woman has a bad relationship she becomes a totally different breed of women.

14- Most of the men don’t realize the fact that in the relationship phase it’s all about her and even after getting married but once married the woman actually embraces that and gives the man the attention he needs but before marriage it’s all about her and when guys don’t comprehend that completely they do stupid things which make the woman fed up and eventually avoid the guy.

15- Women who fall in love and get married with the guy they talked to for the first time are a totally different kind of women. They’re more positive about men and consider themselves more confident and emotionally stable.

I can actually keep going but I gotta do some stuff but I hope this would help you understand few things about the most amazing thing in the world “WOMEN”.

And try to be someone’s first and last that’s the best scenario, all the best!

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Women have the same complaint about men. Sometimes the person you’re interested in gets a big head because they can sense how smitten you are and they lead you on as an ego boost…or maybe because they’re not sure about whether or not they want a future with you. And other times…we lead ourselves on…by overlooking the signs of “non-interest.”

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The guy just wanted a shoulder to cry on; didnt ask for the meaning of life.

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I think I gave him the shoulder he needed the most and you’re welcome!