loveless marriage

[blessed2006]

Re: loveless marriage

@redvelvet

If there was never any love from your side even from the beginning…to phir tum ne shaadi kyu ki? That wasn’t fair for you…and it wasn’t fair to your spouse. Things might be “good” in the sense that you guys are usually in agreement with one another and respect each other. But don’t you wonder sometime that you could have married a person that you really did feel a greater attraction toward…and that your spouse too could have found someone that loved them? Don’t tell me it’s one of those situations where you fell in “love” with someone before marraige…but you didn’t end up with that person…and you can’t develop those same feelings of “love” for your spouse? Even then you could have chosen to wait to marry someone else.

mere ammi abbu ko yeh rishta pasand hai. mere maa baap khush tou main khush. (koi zor zabardasti nahi hui)

oh NO NO its not one of those situation. i have never loved anyone in that sense (kabhi pyar nahi hua). meri zinadgi main is tarah ke pyar ki koi jaga nahi hai. i would have the same feeling for anybody else too.

i dont want any love from my spouse either i just want respect for myself and for my parents and i am getting that so far.