I’ve heard this one too many times, and each and every time I vehemently disagree. Or maybe I’m just not mentally mature enough to understand this. Everyone says its better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. I don’t think so, because if you never loved, then you don’t know what you’ve missed out on, you don’t cling to memories so dear, you don’t shed tears dreaming of what could have been, you don’t mourn shattered dreams. Loving and then losing someone is the hardest thing in life for those who truly loved from a spiritual and emotional standpoint, because it is the point of no return. Life comes to a standstill. Hearts become weak, yet harden like a rock, because we don’t want to let anyone else in. You’re left alone and expected to survive with the memories of beautiful moments spent together. On the other hand, if you’ve never loved before, yes you don’t truly experience the beauty of life, but then again you also don’t have to experience heartache, the shift from delirium to cold hard reality. You don’t exactly see how life changes colors so fast. You don’t know how numbered your days are. You don’t live life suffering, praying to finally die so you could meet again.
If only we could foresee the future, so we would never put ourselves in a position where our hearts could be snatched of its very own heartbeats, and have them replaced with a poisonous selfdestructive love.. 
I need Zoloft 
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Hi sabriya,
dont ask what im doing awake at this time.......
Anyway regarding your question do you mean like if the person you love dies or just general breakup.
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Whoa you're here! Hey :) Well it can be both, for me it was the former, but in general I think it just sucks losing the one you love, be it a breakup or death
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He he yeh am here but snuggld up in bed at the same time.
I think love and lost, i know theres the possibly you could lose the love of your life but its a risk u have to take. Like your parents or family, god forbid but if you ever lost them you wouldnt think i wish i had never had them in the first place. If i lost my love id be completely heartbroken and torn to bits but id cherish the good memories, theyd cause me pain but you cant deny yourself happiness and love because of fear of losing it. Love is so beautiful, and i'd be glad to have had love and gave love rather than not have it at all.
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Ps. Sorry for late reply im using my phone and its like dial up speed.
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yeah I wish I could think like that, life would be easier :( anyway Saima, I have to go in about 10 minutes, need to pick up my mom from nani's house, so goodnight to you, get some rest you nightowl! :)
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been there, done that.
woh lamhein, woh yaadein. :hinna:
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When you fall in love you will think like that, but your right in saying if you don't have it you don't know what your missing. What time is it there? Is it not night time for you too. Im gonna try get some sleep now, night night.X
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its 11:15 i gotta go i might be back later as I don't sleep nights anyway, toodles :) Goodnight Saima
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I recommend everyone loose their first loves… It makes a person so much more mature in these matters… :k:
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what if your first love is your husband/wife becoz going out with someone or dating is not allowed. So dating does have its benefits, lol.
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^^ most people here don't believe in dating so it wouldn't happen to em
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its not about dating..just imagine if ur fiancee or husband cheats you, i mean if he has few / many chat girl friends, whom he calls, chats says honey sweety etc. wat will be teh pain in wife heart when she comes accross these things? can you explain...she loved cared gave him his life, and this is the result, plp often say that its usual for men to have net or chat friends and flurting them, its just time pass, but i dnt agree. this means he never cared about his beloved.
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Love is a feeling you feel, when you feel you are going to feel a feeling you have never felt before.
Got to have that feeling once in your life
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Agree.
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better to have loved than not.. is what people say when they have to get over the pain of losing a loved one.. it's to see the bright side of a painful experience.. I wish I could love and just keep loving rather than go through the pain of losing someone so special..
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I seee Feb14 is not far eh 
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To lose someone you love, makes you appreciate the others that you love.........it reminds you of mortality
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there is no way you can control your life's feelings
sometimes... never loving anyone seems like the best option in the world, no ties that bind, no heartache, no memories bittersweet and pure...
but then when you love you feel the happiness, the ecsatcy that comes with those feelings, the memories the colours the sounds the smells,
all clash together
loving and loosing....you know you have lived
never loving...you have never lived
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don't love me for fun gurl
let me be the one gurl
love me for a reason
let the reason be love