3 months pehle chat room join kia ta same time jab ye pak links join kia..
waha boht freinds bane te but sab ko bhai bolti te aur family jesa ban gya wo chat room kafi popular te boht hasi mazak kia… waha ek larka mila hes 24 im 23 wo acha user ta mai be clean chat karti te aur main page par rahti te sab se baat karti te wo kafi impress hua dekh kar meri chat read krta ta but kabhi lift nhi karwaye te maine uska nick ta innocnt_boy so mai usko inno mera bacha bolti te to wo line nahi marta ta kyo ke mai sab ki achi se class leti te jo bhi line marta ta so ek din wo aya mere pm mei aur maine dekha ke wo dosti krna chahta hai maine bola sorry mai dosti nahi karti yaha se bahir ap aye hum yaha chat kare ge kehta hai nahi muje apko GF bnana hai maine bola sorry no.So wo chala gya 2 weeks tak nahi aya pir achanak se aya mai uske paas gye aur Salam le aur haal chal poocha 3 dafa ese baat huey pir ek din mere bare mei poochne lagh gya ke kaha se ho maine btaya usne yakeen nahi kia ke im from UK so us ne bola muje number do main bola ap kia call karein ge muje number do mai karti hu so miss call de to wo parshan hogya ke mai sach bol rahi te ok so wo kehta hai ke ok teek hai chat mei baat ki aur baat khatm huey to maine bye bol dea..pir next day uski miss call aye maine apis call kia and ese he batein karte karte usne muje best freind bola maine kaha ok aj se hum best freind… ese baat krte krte hum boht close ho gye aur dil nahi lagta ta us se baat ka bgher but nahi ta pata ke par hai ya kia hai so normal rhae lekn baat kuch zeada barh gye te maine ek din bola usko jab baat nhi hoti to dil nhai lagta pir wo tora sa shok hua aur muje bhi nahi pata chala maine bola kia hai so us ne poocha ek din ager kisi ki addat parh jaye to kia hoga maine jawab dea addat nahi parh sakti ye stupid baat hai but khud ko ehsaas nahi ta ke muje khud addat parh gye hai es insaan ki…
batein karte rahe ese he 1 month hone wala ta 18 hours a day hum baat krte te FB and Call pr…usne ek din poocha do you love me? main kafi shok huey es baat se tab muje kuch feel hua ke kuch baat zaroor hai… maine bola nahi usne bola sach batou maine bola nahi hai… ok baat khatm bas tab se sab badal gya… aista aista pyar hogya…wo subah Baba ke sath kaam pe jata ta tab bhi mere saath Fb pr aur call pe jab yaad ati te aur raat ko 11 baje se 4 baje tak call prh wo bina soche ke usne kaam pr bhi jana hai subah mere saath baat karni… muje hasata ta jab muje rona ata ta muje bolta ta mere paas aya karo har baat share ki us se aur ab shadi tak baat aye to muje nahi pata kia karo wo pakistan hai uski mama nahi maanti mama ko lagta hai UK ki girls achi nahi hai…hum shadi krna chahte hai!
i have been divorced its been at least 8 months...
3 months pehle chat room join kia ta same time jab ye pak links join kia..
waha boht freinds bane te but sab ko bhai bolti te aur family jesa ban gya wo chat room kafi popular te boht hasi mazak kia... waha ek larka mila hes 24 im 23 wo acha user ta mai be clean chat karti te aur main page par rahti te sab se baat karti te wo kafi impress hua dekh kar meri chat read krta ta but kabhi lift nhi karwaye te maine uska nick ta innocnt_boy so mai usko inno mera bacha bolti te to wo line nahi marta ta kyo ke mai sab ki achi se class leti te jo bhi line marta ta so ek din wo aya mere pm mei aur maine dekha ke wo dosti krna chahta hai maine bola sorry mai dosti nahi karti yaha se bahir ap aye hum yaha chat kare ge kehta hai nahi muje apko GF bnana hai maine bola sorry no.So wo chala gya 2 weeks tak nahi aya pir achanak se aya mai uske paas gye aur Salam le aur haal chal poocha 3 dafa ese baat huey pir ek din mere bare mei poochne lagh gya ke kaha se ho maine btaya usne yakeen nahi kia ke im from UK so us ne bola muje number do main bola ap kia call karein ge muje number do mai karti hu so miss call de to wo parshan hogya ke mai sach bol rahi te ok so wo kehta hai ke ok teek hai chat mei baat ki aur baat khatm huey to maine bye bol dea..pir next day uski miss call aye maine apis call kia and ese he batein karte karte usne muje best freind bola maine kaha ok aj se hum best freind... ese baat krte krte hum boht close ho gye aur dil nahi lagta ta us se baat ka bgher but nahi ta pata ke par hai ya kia hai so normal rhae lekn baat kuch zeada barh gye te maine ek din bola usko jab baat nhi hoti to dil nhai lagta pir wo tora sa shok hua aur muje bhi nahi pata chala maine bola kia hai so us ne poocha ek din ager kisi ki addat parh jaye to kia hoga maine jawab dea addat nahi parh sakti ye stupid baat hai but khud ko ehsaas nahi ta ke muje khud addat parh gye hai es insaan ki...
batein karte rahe ese he 1 month hone wala ta 18 hours a day hum baat krte te FB and Call pr...usne ek din poocha do you love me? main kafi shok huey es baat se tab muje kuch feel hua ke kuch baat zaroor hai... maine bola nahi usne bola sach batou maine bola nahi hai... ok baat khatm bas tab se sab badal gya.... aista aista pyar hogya...wo subah Baba ke sath kaam pe jata ta tab bhi mere saath Fb pr aur call pe jab yaad ati te aur raat ko 11 baje se 4 baje tak call prh wo bina soche ke usne kaam pr bhi jana hai subah mere saath baat karni... muje hasata ta jab muje rona ata ta muje bolta ta mere paas aya karo har baat share ki us se aur ab shadi tak baat aye to muje nahi pata kia karo wo pakistan hai uski mama nahi maanti mama ko lagta hai UK ki girls achi nahi hai....hum shadi krna chahte hai!
Sweetmano, how do you know that she is a troll? Look at her post in the Love Online thread where she has mentioned her situation more briefly. This thread is a continuation of that issue.
SUMMARY:
OP is divorced. She became friends with a guy on a forum where he was more forward than she was. Despite her denying his requests to become his gf and to take communication outside the forum, they developed a friendship outside the website which entailed lengthy conversations on a regular basis. He told her that she was his best friend, attachment grew stronger, and then ine day he asked her if she loves him. She insisted she didn't, but things have now progressed to talks about shaadi. The guy says that his mom is against the rishta because OP resides in the UK and mom feels she won't make a good DIL. Op wants to know what she should do.
1) I am more traditional in that I believe the guy should be the first to say, "I love you." I don't like that he asked you if you love him as opposed to telling you his feelings first. Innocent-boy was clever in putting the question on you. This might be due to a fear of rejection, so to preserve his image he chose to ask instead of tell. But I also see this as him depending on the girl to carry the relationship forward instead of taking that step himself. So, would he have the courage to involve his parents or will he depend on you to do the work, or will he be wishy washy?
2) Do you have any evidence that he even talked to his mom or parents about you? There's nothing you can do other than tell him that he needs to convince his parents and get them to call your family if he's serious about marriage. His mom is already against marrying girls outside of Pakistan and I think your divorce will make things more challenging.
3) Your parents are probably searching rishtas for you and the more attached you become to him, the harder it will be for you to consider other rishtas with an open mind. So, you need to tell him that if he cannot involve his parents send send a rishta, then you will have to either end this "friendship" or at least reduce communication because it will become difficult for you to move on and look at other rishtay or opportunities. If he believes you are the one, he should step up his game and not leave you hanging.
4) There are many things you need to think about. Are you sure he's not using you to settle in the UK? Would you be able to live in Pakistan? Would he adjust in the UK? What are his qualifications? He talks to you even when he should be paying attention to his job with his dad. So, will he make a mature and responsible life partner?
5) I feel like this guy and your relationship moved fast. There are exceptions, but on the whole I don't believe a guy and a girl can be just friends. I'm wary of guys who move too fast and I don't like it when they are wishy washy or pull disappearing acts; that's hurtful. Don't have the best feeling about this.
Lastly, I don't like it when guys have innocent in their usernames out of all the qualities in the world. Innocence denotes a weakness, not sure why any guy would want to send that impression.
In her case, larki se zada mujhay larka troll laga... mmm.... I feel something wrong about this person Zara.. dont know what, why... but.... erm.... NO......move on!!
^I don't think the guy is a troll either. You'll see guys on GS with similar nicks. I just think he's more the emotional kind. I admit I don't have the best feelings about this because it seems rushed and heady to me. But Zara knows him better and we could be wrong about him.
I personally know more than a couple of guys who use internet for the sole purpose of finding a girl who could help them settle abroad. They are not trolls. They are predators.
Zara behna, ye masoom_larka apni samajh main to bilkul nahi aa raha.. aap khud khasi seedhi sadhi si lag rahi hain... andha bharosa hargiz mat kijiay.. check karain usay theek say... agar mumkin ho to bataiay k aap nay ab tak usay kis kis tarha say aazma kar dekha hay?
kuchh jaanii pahchaanii sii kahaanii lag rahii hai! 
