Love

Lifestyle Relationships
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Is it something you work on? Or it just happens and then why do we desis figure if it doesn’t occur in the first meeting or two, then it wont ever happen?

Some of the guys I’ve fallen for are people I became friends with and then saw how wonderful they were as people, not because I thought they looked hot to begin with.

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When I was [much] younger, I always crushed on the guys that were in my class. Obviously I wasn’t in love but a lot had to do with looks, most very d-bags to begin with.

And now that I think about it, the reason I even talked to my now-fiance in our early stages was because he was crushing on me so obviously and he also happened to be freaking hot. But even then, I actually fell for him after we became friends. I finally said ‘I love you’ 3 months after he had said it to me. And then when I fell, I fell hard. :smack:

And now we’re best friends. So I guess it was a mixture of looks+being friends. I will be honest, I wouldn’t have taken it seriously if I was not attracted to him.

PCG, you’re cute with your threads.

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Too much earnestness in this thread, can't make jokes...

I think there is definitely something to the notion of chemistry between two people, although it may or may not be apparent within initial meetings. Love is too broad a term, IMO. I think love encompasses both the initial attraction, as well as long term attachment and commitment. So to answer your question, I think love is both, something spontaneous as well as attachment that's a result working at it and finding out about someone's personality and character.

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I think chemistry is very important for me...but i never define that as love. You can't compare something that just developed over a few days to a lifetime worth of effort.

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Love takes time given there is consistent attraction present.

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Where’d you get THAT crazy idea from? You’ve got it all wrong, my friend. It’s if the love doesn’t occur after the first baby or two is born, then it won’t ever happen. :chai:

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PCG, you are answering your own question in second line. You can not say final word about someone in first meeting. You can superficially analyze.

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What is love- baby don’t hurt me - dont hurt me no more :teary2:

Love is shyte - and shyte just happens in life , you cant plan that :slight_smile:

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attraction.

it's only between two people. and that is why no one can actually explain it.

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I am so fat ,i am beginning to have trouble while sitting.

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^Not always.

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Brilliant!

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Nope. I am just that adorable!

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If you have to keep reminding the world and reassuring yourself.....then you're probably not. Those who actually have the quality don't need to do so.

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Actually its a trolling technique. The more I boast, the more guppans respond negatively to my posts :D

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If I had read that from my wife I would never trust her agian.

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You’ve set it up that way…so that whether a guppan’s response is negative or positive…you’d see it as a victory either way. :rolleyes:

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See you know all my tricks. Nothing to hide at all now. :smiley: Been using them to I see :smiley:

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No, CM, you never brought out the stirrer out in me. I’ve had it in long before I joined this place. You get no credit for it. :chai:

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LMAO! See like I said you know me all too well. And I so did. Even though you will never admit it we both know the truth!