assalamu alaykum friends,i have a problem
well im in love with a guy who doesnt even know i love him.I spoke to him once but the problem is such that i dont know about our destiny hes very rich and im from a very very simple family,though hes very rich he is equally a very good person mashallah very down to earth ready to help others.My love is onesided neither the guy nor my family know about it.He is still single.But i dont know if ever ill be able to marry him but allah knows ive loved him sincerely.my mother wants to get me married i want to come out from this illusion and fulfill my mamas wish but the problem is that i can forget him i dont want to marry someone with the thoughts of someone else in my mind it would be like cheating which is totaly unfair and wrong to that innocent guy my mum will look for..i know allah says its our duty to get married one day but i dont know what to do i dont want to marry anyone else since i cant forget the one i loved sincerely though onesided.you may think im crazy.I NEED YOUR HELP AND ADVICE PLEASE.thank you so much friends
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Just share it with your mother....and then do whatever your parent suggest.... A very reach person and an ordinary person....How it is possible unless he also want it to do???
As you said it is one sided love then you should not feel any crime in your mind when you go to somebody's else house because you didn't commit any sin..... Thats only in thinking.....which is not important...... you cannot commit any sin in thinking.......
A common friend can also be useful..........If he agrees, well and good. If not then forget it....But all these should be within the limits of Islam....Do two Rakats Salat Istekhara and ask Allah's guidance....
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This thread should be in Life1 forum,no?:aq:
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thanks so much apple2005
@waterfall99 yeah it is in wrong section.