Re: love vs status
You have to look at the circumstances here. When you're doing an arranged marriage, you look for what you think would be a good fit for your son or daughter, a good profession, someone who will care for your son or daughter. What else is there to go on aside from their education, what you know about their family etc? When there's a love match, all that doesnt matter all too much - your son or daughter has fallen in love, hopefully with someone they've met in their own persuit of career so that will be taken care of.....