Lets imagine:there is one girl who met a guy.she n he fell in love.they had same dreams,same worries..she think that she loves him n gave promise to all hers life relyable to him.time goes n suddenly he takes a brake.she is crying days n nights learnig to survive.at the end she find a strenght in hers dream n goal in her life.but after somewhile they meet…n become again as b/g.friend.but they have lot of problems n conflicts…but not without some happyness:) .but she still keeps relationship.after somewhile at the time when she was waiting 4 him she meet hers boyfriend friend.they become friends.v good friends.he is all the time with her supporting her.the have nice time.she feels lucky.but she start to feel symphaty 2 him but she is struggling.her boy comes back.the have again conflicts.n everytime when she has problems this hers friend comes 2 help.but not boyfriend.after somewhile she realise that she cant stay with boyfriend.beside he says he cat marry her next 3 yr.n at same tame her friend askes her hand.what u would do?do u would get marry with the friend,stayed 2 wait 4 boyriend 3 yrs(thought there is a lot conflicts),or u would choose to stay alone?
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oh God..why did i even bother reading this childish story..nevermind
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common sense?
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Well come on!its not fuuny...sometimes in life are situations when u cant choose between two guys...i just want to know what exactly makes diffrent people to make choice choosing live partner..So????
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^Could be.Isnt that.if u would have same situation what u would do?
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i meant some ppl have a lack of common sense :-/
I would never be in a same situation inshallah because I KNOW where my loyalties lie.
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Its as simple as, do you love your boyfriend or not? Do you love your boyfriends friend? (eww)
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it depends on who cares the most the freind or boy freind if the boyfreind got other plans then tell your freind to dump him and marry the freind
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Stay with my boyfriend, if i love him i can wait to marry him (conflicts are in every relationship, even friendships)…i wud never get with his friend! But i was in a similar situation myself, the difference being i had NO feelings for this friend (actually was a mutual friend of ours), but he did for me…btw, either way now, the girl’s friendship with this friend is forever changed…it won’t be the same friendship as before…plus, it’s not wise to come btwn two friends (if they’re not really friends, then it’s different otherwise, nope it’s not a good idea).
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there is what i would do-i would stay with a boyriend..everyone makes mistakes.noone is perfect n if i search for comfort i would nt find it in this boyriends friend as well.:D
i mean if they are together for so long then why they r still?who after taking brake comes back 2 relationships????
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I’ve done that…it’s not bad, at the time that’s wot i needed to do…when we got back together, we still had to work hard on the issues we had…but the break gave me time to think about wot i really wanted to do about stuff, without actually having him influence me in my decision…i duno, it’s not like i’m encouraging it or something…it’s just that at that time, in my life it was wot i did…and i have no regrets about it ![]()
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well i understand u v good…coz exactly with my boyfriend i ve learned to nt be so selfish.well i gues in ur life worked that same saying"everything happens for a reason"…im so glad 4 u:biggthumb !!!u both plz dont give up…love is realy hard work…but its realy another topic…
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^ Yep, i believe everything happens for a reason too…sometimes when something happens, we don’t see the reason rite away, but maybe later in life we can say, oh, that’s y…and sometimes we may never know the reason…
Thanks…and we don’t give up…it’s not in our vocabulary…it is hard sometimes, but u just keep looking forward not back…good luck with ur situation, i wish u all the best :k: ![]()
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ok..now i dont feel as fool..im happy that i can learn to love…realy v hard thing but if we give up( i mean as well u…)we re loosers,isnt that?but we re not..but if honerstly how u overcome angryness?coz its my biggest problem..when im angry i dont control what im saying…
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Well as long as u try ur best, that’s all u can do rite…
Now anger, that can be a good and bad thing…we often get angry quickly, it’s easy too…the difficult part is learning how to control it…it’s an emotion, it’s okay to feel it…there’s a rite way and a rite time to show it…i guess if u want to control wot ur saying, then u wud have to walk away from the person/situation, until u r calm enough to come back and talk properly…or try expressing urself differently or at least try (i know it’s hard) to not raise ur voice, as this can seem abusive to others…and as long as ur not physically violent when u get angry, i think u’ll be okay ![]()