Love Story?

[Reha]

Re: Love Story?

@NomiCA

I would ‘politely disagree’ here… a ‘man’ has lots of people he cares about [his family] and he just can’t go through with such life altering decisions without consulting/having their approval and stuff…and then there are financial issues to deal with too..

there are some people who do take such steps without consent/agreement of others…and without thinking through their position , social and financial before marrying…but ‘most’ ‘men’ do have to take those factors into account before making a commitment to marry or say a final yes.

See this makes me question the man’s intentions in the first place because -

If a man is so in need of others’ approval, then why get involved with someone in the first place? Why drag someone through this and hurt them? As a girl, I know what my parents likes and dislikes. I know what they will approve of and disapprove of. I wouldnt get involved with someone I know my parents will not like and string them along for the sake of “love”.

Also, simply talking to your parents and have an informal “baat pakki” or engagement is not a huge financial burden at all. In fact, if anything it would give parents more time to prepare themselves financially for what lies ahead.

Its about intentions. If someone wants to make things work, they can. Its not necessary to stage world war iii to make a point. You can go about it in a sensible manner too.