When you are in a conflict with your spouse or significant other, is it usually because you feel unloved or disrespected?
Please when you answer, do mention if you are a male or female :).
Re: Love OR Respect
most of the time its none of the tow. Mostly its either women going through her days or men is under pressure at work - bekar kee batoon per behes honey lagtee hai :)
Re: Love OR Respect
When you are in a conflict with your spouse or significant other, is it usually because you feel unloved or disrespected?
Please when you answer, do mention if you are a male or female :).
me female... whenever i have a conflict with anyone its usually cuz i feel unloved
Re: Love OR Respect
I and my wife never had any conflict so do not know. 
She never lets me so I never disagree with her. 
Re: Love OR Respect
When you are in a conflict with your spouse or significant other, is it usually because you feel unloved or disrespected?
Please when you answer, do mention if you are a male or female :).
Female.
Most of the time when we disagree or aruge....it's b/c one of us is stressed out or I'm just being emotional....lol. Has nothing to do with love or respect.
Now on a few occassions, I have snapped at him b/c I felt disrespected.....but we talk through it and at the end, I realize I misunderstood something and/or he apologizes.
But I've never felt "unloved".
Re: Love OR Respect
mirch uncle and mirchi aunty.
Re: Love OR Respect
when i feel disrespected. I dont care much about not being loved but i hate it when someone disrespects me or my opinion
Re: Love OR Respect
my first response would be unloved, which would make me sad