Love or arrange? *compatibillity*

Love or arrange marriage and whyy?

And same time do u believe in compatibility? Say if personalities dont match do u believe that the marriage wouldnt work?

For some reason i always said arrange marriages work but now i think and i dont know why i think, just as much as arrange could work is just as much as love wil work, i no longer believe arrange marriages work better then love.

What do u lot say about all this?

Do u think 2 people from differnt worlds as in totally opposite personalities can be together?

Just a thought come to my head, what do u lot say about it?

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Why do you think love marriage works better than arrange?

Yes, they can if both are capable of accepting difference of opinion, but it is hard to find one with that maturity. I will always suggest to go in like minded people who share more common things as you do.

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Nooo Noo lol, i always thought arrange works better then love, but now ii think love and arrange marriages are on thhe same level...what do u say about this?

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I don't think one can define whether LOVE will work or ARRANGED. It depends on the 2 people.

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Aap abhi choochi si bachi hain, toh studies mein time lagaye :D

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shaadi shaadi hoti hai.

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Most than compatibility, its the willingness to work for the relationship and willingness to adjust that works no matter if its arranged of love.

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that is just a dialogue to brainwash women into believing its their duty to uphold the marriage
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Are you sure you are a pakistanimard as your nick suggests?

Hard time believing a pakistani mard woud admit to that. Kudos to you! :D

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Just wanted to say hello to Chochi Chi Bachi. Name Always cracks me up.

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dude marriage is pretty much like wearing shoes. either the shoes accommodate your feet or at some point your feet stop getting sore. No matter what you choose, you are still going to wear the same shoe for life.

(i really think someone needs to figure out a new methodology for getting people married - like an ideal solution that always works)