Re: Love online
by lying if you mean: hiding certain things about yourself which are umm.. not very impressive. guys and especially girls do it all the time in real life too. what’s so disconcerting about people lying online? you handle it in a similar way; if you like the conversations and have time to spare just assume that they’re lying(in the real sense of the word and not according to the above definition) about everything but deal with them like you believe them. if your assumptions are proved to be correct, you can easily quit because you never fell for the lies and as a result you’ve gained a lot of experience in judging people correctly. there’s also a chance that your assumptions are wrong, in which case you have found yourself a potential boyfriend/girlfriend. its a fool proof strategy (of never getting hurt) developed over a series of past (read as bad) experiences which works fine for both online and offline scenarios. its a process of hit and trial. you can’t be sure about finding your soul mate (maybe one exists, not sure about it though) in the first hit.