Re: Love online
Axe-Murderer
sachi sachi batao ye term tumharay zehen me kyun aai?? ![]()
Aw… thankoo D2LK.. and thanks for the prayers.
But to the people out there who consider my story flawless… before marriage all went smooth.. but the first year of my marriage was quite difficult in order to understand my in-laws… their priorities and sometimes my hubby (not to forget… there is always some difference between your spouse before and after marriage) so I had to cope up a lot with that.
Today… at this stage.. I can consider myself lucky, I can feel I am in a successful marriage JUST because in the first year of my marriage, I made a lot of compromises, sacrifices, tolerance and most of the times, tried to understand them than making them understand me.
Fighting back, argument back, shouting back and proving your power back is not always the key to have a successful marriage instead it worsens the situation.
So… girls who say, its kind of difficult to find a perfect match these days..my suggestion to them is… lower your “too much of demands”, don’t try to search for a diamond.. because its a stone that we find and turn it into a diamond..(and I think the same advice goes to the Men
) Don’t make issue out of small things… and sometimes in some situations… its good to stay quiet than answering back.. follow his Jaez order and PLZ PLZ PLZ… is ayat ko apne pallu… dimagh, dil, hawas… zehen…har jagah bitha lo…ke Allah ne mard ka aik darja buland farmaya hay…Believe me… life aasaan ho jayegi!!