stoppit, I think that there is nothing to say that falling in love with a fantasy is not love. It may be an unrealistic love, but love was never based on rationality. I think the only real love is self-love anyway, we all fall in adore with our own reflections, whether that be in the physical or cyber world.
I realise that. But what is the point of unrealistic love? What are you going to do with it?
Thinking that such love = a potential solid relationship in the physical world, is ridiculous. That was my point.