Assalamoalaikum every one
First of all Eid Mubarik to every one and I hope every one had a Great time with there family
Ok, I don’t come to Gupshup that often but today I felt the urge to post this…I sure hope to get reasonable responses.
The thing is I am in Love with this guy and I sure adore him. I never felt that way with anyone in my life and I dunno whether i will be.
Yes, i told him that i love him and alhamdullilah i got the same response from his side, so there isnt any problem in that!
The thing is, we both are studying at a moment, not in undergrad but in grad schools. We bboth live far away from each other and have bz schedules. I dunno about him and i am afraid to talk to him about this matter, but sometimes i feel like talking to him soo much but then I don’t thinking i dont want to waste or take his concentration from his studies.
Now, the problem I am feeling is, I am afraid he is avoiding me or may be he is indeed too much bz in his schedule…but i can’t come up with the answer.
He is such a sweet heart and he is not only studying, he is also doing the side business and taking care of the house.
I just need ur inputs of what to say to him or how to approach him asking of what might be my misunderstading toward his behaviour!
relax.. u both like each other.. so all u need to do is talk to him about priorities in life.. what is more important... and what should you both do .. if you want to be with him.. then u might have to sacrifice some other things in life..
my honest suggestion.. talk to him.. don't be afraid .. he is not gonna bite you .. pigs don't bite, atleast i think they don't
Ansoon: Thanx for the lovely and honest suggestion :) I indeed need to come up with ennough courage to talk to him about it, but then again if we both get time that is.
Captain1: u r right, that might be the case too...but then if we both keep it like that, i am afraid we might end up diggin a whole of misunderstanding each other. One of us has to talk and clear things out.
Time hai.. u have time.. there is not shortage of time in this world.. its all about intentions.. make an intention and talk to him.. it won’t be the end of world if he spends 15 mins talking to you rather than reading books.. no one in this world is busy enough … so dont’ think that he or you doesn’t have any time..
doesn't sound like a very grave issue. People get busy and don't talk as often as they used to when their relationship starts progressing. Initially there is the whole feeling of "I can't live w/out you and I have to talk to you 24/7" but that tapers off after awhile esp. with guys. Just make it a point to talk to him once or twice a week and say you are checking up on him to see how he is doing.
sorry j/k
