Why aren’t they easier in our culture?
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because love marriages are not 'halaal' :D
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In your opinion they aren’t halal. 
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but i am in pakistan (source of the culture)…so you get your answer 
P.S…its due to limited interaction between the sexes…
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Jo cheez desis ko samajh na aai they over complicate it and term it as haram
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are you walaaiti ?? 
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Nahi, just someone with a good grasp of English and Urdu
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Tauba tauba.. love?
beta, yeh be-sharam logon ka kaam hai, hamara kia lena dena is sey?
rolls her tasbi's daanay in super fast speed
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^
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Nahi, tay ki maan baap mar gaye nay jaira bachay uth kay apna rishta aapay dhoondnay paye raiye nay :bailain:
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Hall of Fame, funny?
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its 'love' thats not easy........marriage is easy :D
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So true I’d imagine
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Nomica is right. It's the lack of interaction between the sexes.
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Its coz arranged marriages are still considered as more successful in our society since our parents had arranged marriages...
Its also coz interaction between opposite sexes in considered as haram and love is thought to have developed only through interaction...
Its coz families still consider if they choose the bahu, she will be more obedient and will not snatch the son from the family...
Its coz girls whom boys like are considered as characterless...
Its coz guys tend to compromise on many factors (like financial status, caste etc) when they are in 'love' with a particular girl...
Etc Etc
So you see there are many reasons why love marriages are not easy in our society...
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Hall of Fame, funny?
LOL!
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Why aren't they easier in our culture?
Because love is less important as compared to other factors.
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Well, bahus chosen by the guy's parents themselves can still be abused.
There are miserable, loveless arranged marriages where the couple sticks it out for the sake of the children, to maintain their izzat, cuz divorce is a stigma.................and are such marriages accounted for when it comes to determining the success rate of arranged marriages?
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determining the success rate of arranged marriages?
has there been any determination of success rate of either of the two sorts??