Ok,when a guy and a girl love each other and want to get married,how should they let their parents know about their choices?How should it all begin?What is/are appropriate method/s for letting your parents know so that they accept your choices?
All those who have done love marriages,pls share your experiences.
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Listen some one’s full love story thn get the idea what to do nxt:hmmm:
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my older brother got caught width his wife in a park by police.
Pollice Inspector sat in the car and took my brother to my fathers place.
Bhai was nikahed in a week.
my older brother got caught width his wife in a park by police. Pollice Inspector sat in the car and took my brother to my fathers place. Bhai was nikahed in a week.
Lol PM Did ur brova found it easy way to get lov marrige aftr all fo this?
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yes he did actually.
i would say that u should bring it in ur parents' knowledge that you like this person before falling in love and dating......
dont wait till you both are commited with each other and then tell ur parents
i would say that u should bring it in ur parents' knowledge that you like this person before falling in love and dating......
dont wait till you both are commited with each other and then tell ur parents
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that new, A pakistani girl commiting.
I mean all have to say is "oh mery ami naheen manteen" and there goes the commitment.
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^ i did that :D
i kept her telling every other day to my mom that this collegue of mine seems to be interested in me and told her positive things about him until 2 weeks later i told her that he wants to meet her (dad lives out of country) before he tells his parents about me.i guess he wanted himself to be accepted from my side since he knew there wont be much problem at his end.it was not that difficult to manage Alhamdulillah :)
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There are million and one ways.
Start a thread in Life1 forum and invite your parents to read it.
You can write a letter , send an email , tell someone they confide in to talk to them . Rent a billboard in front of your home and write a message. Send a text message , call them and leave a voice mail on their phone. Rent a blimp to let them know.
Just kidding.
You know your parents , you should know how to break the news to them.
I just called my bhabhi in Pakistan and told her to go with the marriage proposal to her home. My parents were not alive so I had to involve my sweet bhabhi and everything worked out perfectly.
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waterfall,
either go tell your folks directly or tell some other elder and seek their help.
...in the distance..a crackling old record spins on the record player and gets stuck on teh track
pyar kiya to darna kya...pyar kiya toh darna kya...pyar kiya toh darna kya.....
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Marriage is like parachute jumping and love is free-fall part of it. Some people are able to open up the parachute before hitting the ground and few are not that fortunate.
So my suggestion if you are not sure about parachute than check it, but if you like thrill than don’t miss the free-fall part of it.
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My mother is actually like tell me if you like someone please make my life easy otherwise i'll have to find a guy for you and mind you Canada has lack of decent pakistani guys so yeah, but alas i have no one in mind..but if i did it would have been easier for me since i am quiet close to my dad as well...
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^haha yes! my dad wants me to dorm at my uni..hes like go join the MSA! be social! meet good guys, theres plenty of them out there! looooool
:nono: You’d be surprised actually, Canada’s Pakistani guys are not so bad…
my mom was the same way…My dad never actually talked to me abt it directly…til after the rishta was done. 
No..indeed they’re not 
Ok,when a guy and a girl love each other and want to get married,how should they let their parents know about their choices?How should it all begin?What is/are appropriate method/s for letting your parents know so that they accept your choices? All those who have done love marriages,pls share your experiences.
Ideally you should have a close enough relationship with your parents that you can share something so important like this with them
If you dont, then go through a sibling or aunt/uncle or close family friend [like someone whose opinion your parents will trust and appreciate]
My mother is actually like tell me if you like someone please make my life easy otherwise i'll have to find a guy for you and mind you Canada has lack of decent pakistani guys so yeah, but alas i have no one in mind..but if i did it would have been easier for me since i am quiet close to my dad as well...
I was unable to find "one" decent pakistain girls here too!!
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^ Abhi mein kuch kahoongi to kaho gay. tumhari yeh majaal....
Oh well.
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waterfall its not love , probably a husband hunt?
If girl in question found a guy ,she thinks, is presentable to parents then get over with it already.
Tell them . they will say no, you move on. Girl have to go though more guys. So no wasting time.
Hunt Must go on!!
^ Abhi mein kuch kahoongi to kaho gay. tumhari yeh majaal....
Oh well.
you are an exception sweetheart. And we never met. So technically I never found you.