Ok, in that case I would say that I also have one degree of knowledge in that I have seen some friends and relatives get married, but I do not know how their real relationship is, as some people DO put a different face on in public.
Secondly I have another degree of knowledge in the arranged marriage side, and I know that I didn’t have any expectations of how the relationship will progress bcos i didnt have anything to compare it to.
Thirdly, i need the degree of knowledge from PEOPLE WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED this “before and after” scenario so that I can LEARN how it really is.
Yes, we all know a fire burns, but some of us may be colour blind and think the flame is green instead of orange.