Love marriage...or ARaanged?

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Re: Love marriage…or ARaanged?

@Tashiqa

What nonsense! How can you arrange for someone to fall in love?
How can you think of spending your life with a stranger who may be totally incompatible for you? Isn’t it too big a risk to take? Marriage is a risk anyway even when it is to someone you love and know, then how can you decide to spend the rest of your life with someone you do not know in the hope that it might work out?
Marriage is the most intimate relationship there is , then how can you expect to be intimate with somebody you may not connect with on an emotional or intellectual level?
Love is one of the most important components in a marriage. It is better to fall in love first and then marry, rathar than marry first and then try and force yourself to love the other simply because you have to! Besides it is not possible to try and love someone. Love happens, it cannot be forced.

Hundreds of thousands of successful arranged marriaged prove otherwise.

Of all the arrnaged marriage weddings I’ve ever attended, only one has not worked out successfully.